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by ewen fergus on November 24th, 2005

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My girlfriend recently found I had been "cheating" on her (I went out with another girl, several times, we kissed and shared a bed but didn't have sex). What can I do to get her back and trust me again?

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  • by eubankcarebear on September 20th, 2009

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    I dont Believe Men they are disgusting.

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  • by misstina on November 15th, 2009

    misstina

    Okay, first and foremost you don't mean it so you are wasting your time! If you put "cheating" when you were clearly dating someone other than the one you claimed to be committed to then you don't feel real remorse for what you have done!

    Now if you were to ever take the quotes of your fault and admit that you did cheat on her and mistreat her then you may have a chance still!

    So how do you get her back? First admit your faults and flaws to her! Own up to it and take FULL responsibility! Explain what you learned from your horrible mistake and ask her if she could ever forgive you. If she cannot leave it in the past then you do not have a chance.

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  • by Anonymous on September 25th, 2008

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    you should have just pumped that other bird, to a girl kissing someone els of the oposite sex is as bad as having sex with them, if your getting hung for stealing a lamb might as well take a sheep! I know this advice is a little late and useless. But might help some one els take advantage of life while your still alive, in stead of being on your death bed thinking " shit i wish i`d pumped her!"
    Me? why cheat on some one you love, i`m not saying i can see into the future, but how could you see cheating going well?
    Learn From It And Move ON! you`ve hurt this one enough already, she`ll never really forgive you anyway, would you trust you? thought not!

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  • by bekah017 on May 26th, 2008

    bekah017

    i hope she doesnt take you back. obviously you dont care that much about her and she deserves better.

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  • by Blowercup8ip on December 23rd, 2005

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    Well u have to be an open book to her alright, it's not gonna be easy for her to get pass ur betrayal. And wut makes it harder is that she had to find out elsewhere instead of u telling her urself. Ever told her wut made u cheat in the first place. Also make sure to tell her ur schedule, be very patience. Cuz really, if u were my b/f, I can say u would be long gone and no second chances. Keep telling her u love her and that u never meant to do it and will not again. Do all it takes to win a girl's heart back, cuz that's very hard. A girl tends to seek for a protector, who will respect her and defend her if she was under attack and who will not put a hand on her. Ok, going off topic now, sry. Well all I'm saying is show her u can be trusted again and u can also try counseling. Thta'll show her that ur interest in working it out. Good luck, hope u guys the best.

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  • by sensitivejerk on December 5th, 2006

    sensitivejerk

    Shared a bed to any woman if you even slept 10 feet away from a person of the opposite sex- you cheated. Spend alot of time with her, like to the point where you wouldn't have time for another woman and follow through with some small but charming romantic gestures.

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  • by Anon on November 25th, 2005

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    Be an open book - she needs to be able to know where you are and with whom for a while. Answer any and all questions she might have.

    Tell her how she is uniquely special to you - she needs to feel like she can't just be replaced by someone prettier or younger.

    Be patient - it takes a lot of time to get through something like that. Don't pressure her to "just get over it."

    Go to counseling - it will not only help you, it will also show her that you are serious about starting over.

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