"If I can't have you,then no one else will" how would this make you feel if someone said this to you?
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ANSWERS: 100
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Ummm...yeah, I'm just gonna go get that restraining order now.
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Amused. I'm not the type of girl you can easily intimidate. At all.
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It would make my skin crawl and think it is time to leave for good.
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Alarmed. That is a violent way of thinking. I would steer clear of this person.
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How would this make me feel? I would reach for my Glock pronto.
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Been there....was scared to death....with good reason. Turns out this guy (my first husband) wacked his second wife in the head with a hatchet. (she's ok) Stay away from anyone with that type of attitude!
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That is a threat I would take serioulsy...call the police and ask them what steps you could take.
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Very nervous. Worried. Scared. Sounds like someone needs some help, two people need help. The one that said it needs to have an evaluation and the one it was said to needs to get protection.
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Stalked! There are laws in most states that make those words a crime.
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That is alarming. I would take it seriously and take measures to stay far away from that person.
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It would make me feel like I need to call the cops RIGHT NOW. It also means I should start defending blocks, and his arm coming at me with a knife, or the gun in my face. I wouldn't feel good at all. Mostly creeped out and really scared for my life.
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I would feel like he just threatened to KILL ME! And he had... Get away from that psycho! Hopefully, he just said that in the heat of the moment and not truly serious about it! Although, there are real crazy people out there! If he continually follows (stalks) you... Call the cops! You have some who could possibly kill you!
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Very affraid!!! Tell someone in your family whats going on. Don't be alone. If you live alone stay with parents, good friends, etc! Make a report to the police, and get a restaining order. Don't play games, just do it and be done. I've seen to many people severaly hurt in situations like this.
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nervous..my ex would say that to me all the time and I couldnt get the law enforcement to listen until after he kidnapped me and took me for a tour of about 6 states. If someone has said that to you..pay attention and dont blow it off :)
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That's kind of scary.... It would make me feel scared of that person... and I would figure out what I could do to get away from them...
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'nuff said!
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I would look at it as scary and threatening. Leave ! Get out of the relationship !
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I would freak out! I would definitely try to get a restraining order if possible. That does not sound like a happy relationship! I'd get out of it and get legal help!
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Two words..."Fatal Attraction"
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What flavor are you? My dog likes beef!!!
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scared! but no one ever wants me anyway
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Scared to death!
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extremely scare, i had an ex tell me that right before he tried to kill me.. now im wary of dating and it takes me a long time to trust guys
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Like calling the police.
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I would feel disgusted ... yet another moron that fails to understand that "having" a person is slavery, and that is illegal ... if they can not understand that two people are supposed to willingly share their lives, not have one of them owned by the other, then it is time for legal action and very brutal methods of self defense.
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if i had gd like this, i just would leave her, cuse ppl like her are eghoist, they just think of theirselves! as if nmn in the world except themn!
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I think I would be feeling a restraining order.
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the same way O.J. Simpson's wife did, for 1 example, SCARED. but I don't think she realized,(like most), the DEPTH of his statement.
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Like they'd kill me if we ever broke up.
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If my boyfriend ever said that to me, I would probably drop him like a hot rock even though I love him.... and might even report him to the police if he actually followed through with the threat. If that actually happened to you and the person was serious, then the person who said it to you is very controlling and you shouldn't be with him or her! That's just not right.
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very scared!! same thing that happened to my cousin and now look shes in a grave!:( god rest her soul.
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That would be an eye brow raising thing to say and the whole time I would be saying, "Oh s**t".
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scared. in a sort of 500 foot restraining order kind of way.
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like it would be a great shame if the person just fell under the wheels of my car. At the same time, I would also be thinking "Wanna bet shit face?" (just to piss the person off).
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get out of dodge , then call the police, get a restrainig order and load for Bear
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it would make me feel like calling the cops!
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Like getting a restraining order and keeping my gun cocked and loaded.
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It would make me feel like getting a restraining order;)
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I would say, "You got some serious anger issues."
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Afraid, and worried about ever leaving that person, the people who say that usually mean it and the person they say it to usually ends up dead, or seriously injured if the person tries to leave. I would try to find a way out without losing my life.
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Someone said that to me, I got on a plane, flew across the country. That is a sick thing to say to someone. I was 17 and that made me sick
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run for ur life and tell alot of people just incase u go missing..
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Scared shitless
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loved
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i would run as fast as i could to get away from somebody that sick - and not look back
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If God can share his love with everyone else and if He can allow my family and friends to love me then no one on this earth can decide who willhave me and who will not. I am old enough to make my own decisions and I not be treated like a child unless it's by God and my parents. No one owns me. In South Africa the man pays money to marry you and by doing that he thinks he owns you, but if you have what is yours then deposit that money back and file for a divorce.
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well, its funny, cuz my bf just told me the same thing last week...i think its out of pure jelously...plus i think that this someone is not confident enough, probably so possessive also...well i am breaking up with mine, cuz he gives too many orders, and gives his self all the rights and leaves me with none...i used to think that because he is a guy, he should have more rights, but i learned that no one owns you, and if they want to, at least they should show you how much you are really worth...i dnt mean financially i mean emotionally, and physically, someone that you could run into when you are afraid...not someone that scares the living shit out of you!!! good luck to us all !!
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Take this very seriously. I know from first hand. My cousins, her mom and dad divorced. Then the mom remarried. He was abusive to her. Told her the exact same thing. Then one day we got a phone He shot and killed her mom and her little sister and then tried to kill his self, only blowing off a portion of his face and now he is in a mental institution and still alive but my cousins mom and little sister are dead.
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If I understand this right, someone is threatening you with all possible consequences (looks like murder) if you don't want to be with them. I would feel afraid (if I were not feeling strong enough not to be that). In all case I would be upset. But the best way would be to keep as cool as possible and find solutions. First I would tell them how this makes me feel and if they really mean it so. And ask them for excuses. In a second step, I would seek protection or help or learn some kind of self defense. Or just go far enough without leaving an address, if possible. I would also seek some ways to get some emotional distance.
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id feel scared and wouldnt wana be near that person.
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Scared Shi**less! I would talk to the police about him uttering threats, and report every single incident, until it is warranted that you have a restraining order. This is simply the way it has to be done, it's just as DreAnna said, there is not much they will do until there is a history of harassment. Stay safe
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Like I need to get a restraining order and an order of protection ASAP!
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I have had that said, to me, and it is fear I felt, I got a restraining order, which is false security.
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Extremely threatened...and pissed!
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Furious, fearful, suspicious. And I's start carrying a gun after I told the police about his or her statements. Those are indications of severs intent to do bodily harm and even kill. Don't become a statistic over a fool who can't accept loosing. Dust him off The Doctor
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(( OKAY )) and next thing you know I am in Mexico and my name is MARIA CONCHITA MANUELA BULPETA MONA....LOL
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scared...and mad....
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I'm an insecure enough person to say I'd feel a little complimented, but I'd also be angry and a little freaked out. But mostly angry. I've had a sort of online stalker that was like that before, though he never said that exact thing. Good thing it was online so I could block him...
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i would be scared for my life i would call the police as soon as posible and try to get a restraining order. my friends ex said that to her when she left him he was really abuslive but she was stong enough to get out be she was killed. now she lives in fear he will come and find her he is in jail right now but when he gets out she doesnt no what will happen he was stalking her b4 and we have no idea what his plan was
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BE AWARE OF THAT COMMENET BECAUSE THIS IS A SIGN OF SOMEONE WHO IS POSSESSIVE STUBBORN AND UNPREDICTABLE. YOU SHOULD GET AWAY THE BEST WAY YOU CAN AND REPORT IT TO SOME ONE OF POWER
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Umm that if you I left they were gonna kill me. I would run far and fast from this person.
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Get away and get an order of protection.... I smell danger...
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It makes me feel like I am going to have to kill him!
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I wouldnt be able to get far away from this creep fast enough -
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Scared....because this person is obviuosly obsessed & psychotic
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if YOU said it to me, I'd laugh because I dont know you. If a crazy man said it to me I'd call the cops.
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oh really now? my ass...i'd be quite angry and a little bit nervous. but i think i'd definitely be angry
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I would be pretty scared. It would also encourage me to get a restraining order, a guard dog, and change the locks.
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It was said to me once. By a psychotic pagan guy I used to know. Yeah. Scared me to death, and even had to stage that I had moved away for him to finally move on. Now hes stalking some other chick. Poor gal.
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Nervous, very nervous. Get out of it fast!!!
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I would be very leary about continuing a relationship with a person who said something like that to me.
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If my wife said it, great! If Burt, two cubicles down said it...
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I'd feel threatened and would do my best to remove myself from the relationship.
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A chill tru your bones, if he/she in serious mood lah. You're might be discussing about your death right now.
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I would go white as the blood drains from my face and a lump would form in my throat. I would be absolutly terrified
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Well I spent 5 years working for the Kentucky State Police. And it's things like this that leads to someone killing you.. Really this is a thret to your life, if you think about it.. get far away from the sick head, before you end up cold and dead.
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I would feel like I was their piece of property and that I was stuck.
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If someone has told you this get the hell away from them now. Anyone who is halfway mentally stable would never make such a statement. They would eventually accept that the person no longer wanted them and just move on with their life. There is a big difference between being hearbroken over someone who no longer loves you and being a sick f**k. Only a sick f**k would make such a statement to someone they claim to love.
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The person just said he/she is going to kill you. Run like hell and call the police. Let everyone you know, what was said.
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I have had this said to me and it made me feel scared s***less! I left the guy and was close to getting an order of protection..joking or not it is not something to mess with!
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Terrified
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Unhealthy relationship and a very controlling person. I had dated a very controlling boy in high school and wow I thought that was love so mixed up about love i was.
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Like they have gone over the top and could try something crazy. Be nice, but keep your distance.
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I would feel VERY threatened! Please be careful.
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I'd laugh, because i'd probably just encountered the most stupidest perosn i've ever met.
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If someone would say that to me or anyone else I know. I would ask that person why did you say that and I be very concerned for my well being. Also if it was said to me it would be the last time because I would leave that person and make sure they could not hurt me in anyway because the last time I hear that statement mmy dad said that to my mother and now I don't haved her. So if it was said to you and you believe whatg that person said and you feel they might harm you then get out now.
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Hopefully there would be some warning signs before it came to this, but I'd get out, as quick and quietly as possible and NEVER look back!
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Isn't that usually followed by them killing you? I'd be terrified!
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i would ran as far and fast as i could!! but before i left i would hit the person with a base ball bat!!
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it would make me feel as though i were reliving an old abusive relationship i am far away from. its not okay and you should get as far away from this person and contact protection.
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Well, back in the day I had a boyfriend about 6'4" that said that to me and I ended up breaking up with him. He followed me around in disguise, of course I knew his car, with a shotgun. On several occasions he drove by my boyfriends house so I got a restraining order on him. Enough said. Dump him like a hot potato. Good Luck.
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SCARED! How many different things can a statement like that mean! That's a BIG SCREAMING Red Flag if I've ever seen one
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I would say that you might want to find a quiet and inconspicuous way of getting out of the relationship. If you live with him/her, wait until they go to work or leave for a long period of time, get you stuff and go stay with someone, your mom ,dad, a close friend. But don't let him/her know where you have gone too. You may put other people in danger. This is what I would do. words like that are very dangerous to hear and to deal with. Be Careful honey
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Call the authorities
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O...........K....ALL BE RIGHT BACK.....IM JUST GONNA REACH OUT FOR MY FRYING PAN. WACK!! LOL
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Scared!
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They would need to get a hobby or something. Nobody has ever said that to me but if they did, I would say "You need a hobby.
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It would remind me again how selfish they are and uncaring of others.
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