What are the techniques whould be used to delay male orgasm?

There are a few things that can help delay a mans orgasm. Such as simple things like slowing your pace down till he backs down from his orgasm or some people will do a light tweak to the testicle (don't pinch hard, for God's sake!!)which can also help.

There are some other things you can use as well, such as cock rings that are supposed to help make a man last longer. They also have a type of numbing gel you can use that wont make all his sensation go away but enough to help him to last longer. They also make condoms, Trojan does I believe, called Extended Pleasure which has the same type of effect as the gel but it's inside the condom.

Anywho, those are just a few things that can help to delay his orgasm :).

go slow, or pause for a bit

While you're making love, think of other things. Get your mind away from what you're doing.

Please read my entire eanswer.

You never make love TO that person. You make love WITH that person. For the sake of the younger folks who read these answers, I won't get very graphic. I'm sure you can use your imagination.

I AM A VERY fortunate man. I had the wonderful experience of seeing my parents, both sets of grandparents and all my aunts and uncles behave as though they were constantly on their honeymoons with their spouses.
They would hold hands, cuddle, hug, kiss, whisper things to each other, say, "I love you, _____!" and carry-on like many young people, who are in love, do in public.
They would smile at each other and tell each other
how beautiful, wonderful and thoughtful she was and
how thoughtful, wonderful and handsome he was!
WOW! What a great set of romance role models!

No, I never watched as they were making love in the most intimate way, but I DID see and learn from their examples and inter-actions with their spouses! As far as I know, no one ever cheated on the other.

That being said, one day my mother's father got in the car with me. I was driving him to the track. He "LOVED those ponies"! He was well-aware of the relationship I had with the lady I was dating and who would one day be my bride.

He said words similar to these:
I know your father told you what to do, but did he ever tell you how to do it?
I answered, "No".

He went on to say, "I'm going to tell you some things I don't think you'll learn from any one else. When you have sex, make love or whatever you want to call it, you don't behave like most other men. Most men are just interested in one thing and one thing only - satisfying their own selfish selves.

That's NOT the way to do it. You have to make absolutely certain she is satisfied. No matter how long it takes or what you have to do, you have to do whatever it takes to make sure she does what she likes to do best. You HAVE TO satisfy her first.

Your brain is the most important sex organ. Your brain controls what happens downstairs. When you aren't sure about what to do or how to do it, ask her what she wants you to do. She'll tell you or she'll show you. When you're making love, you think of other things - not what's going on at that particular moment with that particular lady. When you think about what you're actually doing, I guarantee you'll never satisfy the lady in your life.

He went on to explain about holding hands, hugging, kissing, caressing and taking things one step at a time. He described a lot of things I heard of but wasn't sure about.

During that ride, one of the last things he said was:
When you are absolutely sure she is satisfied, then you can do what you know is best for you - but not one minute before.

That's what I was told.

Thank you, Gran'pop. I love you. I miss you!

Some afterthoughts: You could also buy a book, on-line, called "Kama Sutra."

You could also go on-line and make the investment in some "adult sex toys" to stimulate and arouse. There are LOTS of sites.

Thanks for asking your Q! I enjoyed answering it!

VTY,
Ron Berue
Yes, that is my real last name!

Sources: My wonderful family!

"THE University of Hard Knocks"
also known as ("a/k/a") "life's valuable lessons"

This is what used to work for me: during sex I would picture in my mind's eye a rowboat tied up to a dock on a small lake in New Hampshire. This would bring my excitement down to a level at which I could continue for as long as my girlfriend or date remained excited and having orgasms.

If I want to delay orgasm during intercourse, I pull my cock out as soon as I feel like I'm going to ejaculate or cum. I then wait about 10 seconds and reinsert my cock and slow down my thrusting. I repeat this as needed and time my orgasm to my wife's. It satisfies her as well because a woman climaxes slower than a man. Sometimes a guy can't stop soon enough because once orgasm starts there is no stopping. With practice and extended foreplay however you will eventually gain control. Age is also a factor. I can thrust for as long as 15-20 minutes where I only lasted 3-5 minutes when younger. Hope this helps. You can also buy numbing gels you can put on your cock when erect as well. The problem with those kind of numbing gels is that it reduces alot of the real pleasure that sex gives. Another good technique as well that I used to do is put KY Jelly on my cock and masturbate to the point of orgasm and then squeeze the head of my cock as soon as I felt like cumming. Doing this repeatedly and using Ky Jelly so you don't rub yourself sore will help you learn control. Good luck!

slow down or stop for a minute or so, concentrate on doing something else, if it's during intercourse, change positions, the little breaks will delay it for him

google "kegel"