by Anonymous on August 6th, 2007

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My wife is sexually submissive, and I have no clue as to how to be "dominant" so I've been sort of making things up as I go along. She likes some kinky stuff (restraints, ice, to be given "orders", etc.) but not pain, so where can I find scenarios/advice?

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  • by *SIR* on December 29th, 2009

    *SIR*

    You are doing to the right thing, by making it up as you go along. There is no right or wrong, other than pushing her beyond her limits. Here is the thing that you might not realize already. You are dominant. That is what your wife is attracted to, and she sees that in you. Own it and go with what feels right. Oh, also, she needs a collar. It doesn't have to be a scary looking leather contraption, although she might like that. Start by getting a choker type necklace. Put it on her and tell her it is her collar and that she is yours. I guarantee good results.

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  • by Glory on August 6th, 2007

    Glory

    I'm sure if you went to a sex shop or love shop you'd get lots of ideas from there

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  • by Nellie Wise Gamgee on August 6th, 2007

    Nellie Wise Gamgee

    there is a book sociology book called "A Different Loving" that will help you with that. it'll give you great advice without getting pornographic.

  • by altgirl84 on October 17th, 2007

    altgirl84

    Roleplay is a very good idea and there's so much you can do with it. A few examples would be Teacher/student, Boss/secretary (oh by the way there's a movie called Secretary with Maggie Gyllenhaal and James Spader, you two should really watch it, they have a D/s relationship and I'm sure you could get some more ideas from it! :)), Daddy/little girl, Coach/cheerleader, Cop/hooker, Burglar/victim, Rock star/groupie, Wealthy owner/french maid, etc etc. Good luck :)

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