ANSWERS: 6
  • The chase is over for him so it's no fun anymore. It's not just men though..I've also known women who do the same thing. Ignore him and see what he does.
  • He might have things going on in his life you don't know about, and they could be preventing him from focusing on you. Be his friend and continue to show positive responses to his presence and let him come around again when he's ready. Your perception of his playing games could simply be in your own head and not something that needs fixing, but if you don't know him well enough for him to be consistently friendly, then you certainly don't understand his personal issues. Give him a chance to catch up. If he doesn't, that's your answer. Meanwhile, imagine that all his other girlfriends are pregnant and that's why he's behaving as he does - out of parental responsibility - if/when you find out otherwise, you should be greatly relieved.
  • men play head games with a person, that he sees he can controll, he will only play these games with someone he,s interested in and guys like that usually are guys that can't express their feelings . this can go on for years and he strings you along and keeps you a guessing what hes up too. this can cause great mental problems with the women, because women hang on trying to figure them out. they try to play games back doesn't work formost women, because women are more emotional. it's not easy to get out, this relationship is all wrong. if you find your self unable to escape get help. best thing is to address this with a counseler. good luck been there done that!!!~
  • It is never a good idea to date anyone from work, because if you break up you have to see each other every day. That would not be pleasant. Just be nice and show your manners and don't worry if he runs hot or cold or whatever he wants to run. No skin off your back!
  • Perhaps he just feels that you are out of his league. Somtimes guys are shy and just don't know how to deal with a strong intellegent woman.
  • I have a similar issue but today i just came to the realization that i am going to stop showing any signs of intrest. Oh yeah hi, im new here. :)

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