When my boyfriend does not call me back (which is a rare occasion), I tend to get really paranoid. I worry that something really bad has happened to him. How do I stop getting so freaked out so easily?
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I do the same thing if I haven't heard from my mother in a few days or can't get ahold of her. I don't know how to cure it. If you find out, let me know!
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Don't revolve your life around him or anyone else. Do other things to keep yourself occupied, and the time will pass so you won't notice, (as much, anyway.)
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Always remember no news is good news. Stay busy! :)
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I think what you're feeling is a normal reaction. However, you've left out some information. How often do you call him? Cell phone chatting every hour on the hour? Although it's an emotional response, it could have detrimental effects. People will question your trust. They may say your insecure. Your boyfriend sounds like a descent guy by almost always returning your calls. You've got to practice your trust which means stifling any freaky feelings you may have. If he does'nt call you back in 24 hours then thats a time to show concern.
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If something's time specific ...like he has to call you back to arrange a time for an event that's happening ....well, call HIM. Otherwise, ignore it. The chance that something bad happened is like a million to one compared to...he's busy, preoccupied with his life elsewhere, etc. Give him a chance to miss you. He'll call, just not on YOUR schedule.
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Get more confident about you're relationship, if you don't trust him there should be a reason.
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Why do you worry? Has someting happened to him in the past when he didn't call, or are you just thinking about the worst case scenerio? If you worry because of the second reason, just try to think logically. Take yourself out of the sitution. If your friend came up to you and asked the same thing you asked, what would you tell her? What reason would you give for him not calling? If you worry because of the first reason, I can't help you there. That's what happened to me, and I am still scared when I don't get calls back. Good luck!
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well i think that too. like me and my boyfriend have a long distance relationship and its hard but im happy that we made it this far.its only been 2 months but we are in love. never felt like this with anyone. i don't wanna loose him and i care for him alot. we used to talk every single day for hours and then all of a sudden he never calls or texts me back. i cry so much cause i miss him and i think like the worst thing will happen to him. we barely talk anymore like 5 minutes max a day. maybe not even talk for the whole day. we talked about meeting eachother but we never put a date. i worry every single day and i try to trick myself into thinking that were gunna get better and things will be back to normal. i pray every single night and every chance i get to pray. any advise?
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