I invited a guy and my female friend to a party last night. I asked her to not hit on him or anything because I wanted to get to know him. They ended up naked together. Should I be mad at her?
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Marj
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hell yeah... shes a hoe!
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Yes, your friend betrayed you, and is very disloyal. I would be pretty mad about that, myself.
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I'd be pretty ticked off. She did exactly what you asked her not to. But if a guy is willing to get like that too, maybe it's better you AREN'T the one who'll be "getting to know him" as much. Sorry about that happening though.
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She is not much of a friend and is looser than a PCH girl but, you did put her in striking distance of your boy.
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The only actions you can be mad about are hers. He didnt have the knowledge that you wanted to get to know him. She did. I have very few true friends but the ones that i do have would never do something like that to me. Are you sure she isnt just an acquaintance? Then again why be mad?, you just found out something about your "friend" that may be a very good learning experience. What probably hurts most is that she got naked with him and you wanted to get to know him. Sounds like if he got naked with her too the first night they met he isnt such a loss after all.
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Heck yeah! She's not a very good friend if she would knowingly go against your wishes when you made them quite clear. But don't waste your time on anger very long. It will only make you feel worse. Find another friend AND another guy.
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She's not your friend. If you ever speak to her again, the one you should be mad at is you! Sorry the strumpet did that to you.
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That's interesting. You said they ended up naked together. You didn't say they had sex together. How did that happen? You were just sitting there clothed and they were in front of you naked?
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They ended up naked at your place or elsewhere? Well, I guess it shouldn't really matter. This was disgraceful behavior on her part, doubly disgraceful it the naked mingling took place at your home.
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Of course not, just as long as they didn't do anything while they were naked. They were just changing clothes, right?
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No. Just laugh and point when she tells you she's pregnant.
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You told her you did not want her to become involved with this guy and she did. She showed total disregard for your feelings and for that I would be very upset. I agree with another poster.. she is responsible because it was her that you told. Trust me when I tell you that circles like this happen all of the time between friends. They are such a bother but you get through them and usually find that someone else was better meant for you that reciprocated the feelings and were not interested in any friend of yours but you. Right now it sucks but it will get better. If she sincerely feels bad and regrets her actions.. I hope that you can try and forgive her and hold on to the friendship.. guy/girl situations like this happen and I hope no friendship is lost over it if this was a one time slight from her. If she does it again.. she may not be the friend you think.. have faith and move on from it. Good luck!
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well... did she replied and promise you "yes she wouldn't not hit on him?" as most people said here, she is not your friend.. its really disappointing but what else can you do? move on and stop paying attention to her..
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Yes be mad. Real friends wouldn't just sleep w/ a guy that they KNEW you liked!
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YES! She's not a friend. She sounds like a bit of a slut.
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Well you have all the good reasons to be mad at her, but honestly, if the guy ended up naked on the first date with her, you know what he wants and it might be better off like that dontcha think? He would've most probably been into you for sex only...
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Yes. Rightfully so.
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Yes.....
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I'd be mad! Especially if I told her that I was interested!
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the girl is a whore and the guy is a dog i say dont bother with either one any more
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