Have you and your serious bf/gf or spouse ever brought someone else into yoru bed for a threesome? Did it have a good or bad impact on your relationship, or did things stay the same?
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snakelover
ANSWERS: 9
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not yet but i'll keep my fingers crossed.
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Im sorry that is something i would never consider....if you were really serious about your b/f or g/f, then sex is an act to share with them only and its not really a serious relationship it is just sex and fun??
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Yes, I have, and the first time it was positive. The second time it was negative, and basically destroyed the relationship. so it's a toss up.
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Yes my husband and I have had multiple threesomes with three different people, while we were dating. Though, they veried in how much they were enjoyed during the act, all of them had a positive ending. We are still fronds with each third person we invited in. I suppose that it had a good impact on our relationship, as I think I concived out son during one such occasion. Now that we are married we are about to have our first foursome. It will be a first for both of us, and we are looking forward to it.
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Yes, I think we've had more enjoyment and arrousal talking about the experiences or fantasizing about others than the actual acts. I feel uneasy and timid that I might do something to affend either of them. Too much attention to the other female and my wife might feel insecure, too little and the other female might feel insecure. My wife is against having females that we both know or associate with regularly to prevent any affairs sparking up on my side which I understand even though I know that's not going to happen.
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No, I would never even consider doing this. Neither did he. For us sex was something that should just be between two people who cared about each other and not some game you play to see how far you can push it before it blows up in your face. Also for me I think this is a selfish thing to do. One partner gets all the attention and the other two end up fighting for scraps or one gets completely left out. There's also the third person to consider. They're just basicly a prop that you're using to get your kicks. This also could create trust and jealousy issues. Best to just keep it one on one. There are so many other things you can do to spice up a relationship that won't complicate things the way bringing in another person does.
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Nay, just one on one is the basic of marriage.
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For the last 26 years my wife and I have had several MMF threesomes with our friend, we also share / trade spouses with our friends. It keeps getting better in and out of the bedroom. But this life style is not for every marriage, it takes a lot of communication and trust between all 4 of the people involved. I hope this helps you.
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no, i could never do something like that, thats a good way to get an std
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