No. Not at all. I'll be 17 next month and the ONLY difference is, I'm with my 2nd boyfriend. But the difference of one boyfriend really isn't a big deal. So live how you wish to live. Don't let people tell you that you aren't normal for being a virgin or only having one boyfriend.

No. In fact, it is commendable. Hang on, theres no rush. Find the right one, and you'll know when it's time. Good for you.

It's actually becoming more common. It's nice to hear there's people out there with good sense.

no its not uncommon at all but it is something to be proud of. whenyou give yourself to someone thats the most precious gift you can give. be sutre you with who you want to be with. thats soooo cool.) best of luck and the world to you.

I'm 18, I have had quite a few boyfriends, but I never had sex with any of them! You deserve a big pat on the back for keeping your good sense!

No, especially if you are an intelligent and responsible person. Responsible people realize that there are consequences that come with having a sexual relationship and will wait until they are ready to handle that responsibility.

Congratulations my dear. You are just the type of person I would be pleased to meet if my son introduced us. Don't do anything that you don't feel right doing. Believe me when I say that 'for everything there is a season.' There's no hurray. Once your virginity is lost it is gone forever and there is nothing you can do on God's earth to get it back. When the time is right, you will know it in your heart. Don't be deceived. Be yourself. That is always enough.

it might be uncommon in todays world but my dear you are in the right path.wait for the right time and the right person. don't hurry into something.you will know in your heart when the time is right. you are doing a wonderful job. hang in there.

Not uncommon but refreshing and mature.

There are other things you can do other than sex that are pretty fun. You'll know when you are ready to have sex and you shouldn't let anyone pressure you.

Not at all uncommon. You're fine.

no it is totally fine do not feel bad

No, thats not very uncommon. Just means that umm.. you're still a virgin :) Some men respect that alot.

Like, totally no uncommon. In fact I think that's like, absolutely normal, hun.

My daughter is 21 and has not had a 'boyfriend'per se, and is still a virgin and has declared to remain one until she marries. With the way that things are in the world today - I am not surprised by any female or male who is still a virgin. Sex is not what it is cracked up to be among teens and young people. It is very special when shared by two people who are married, mature and know their own bodies. A couple who has made a commitment to one another and will remain together for life. A very difficult thing to commit to because few people can say they have done this. I know of one couple who dated throughout high school and college and two years after they graduated college, got married. They are two of our Youth Ministers. After two years, they now have a little bou. They are the greatest example as a loving couple that our young people could ever see and have aspirations to be like. Don't rush into anything you are not ready for. Once the act is complete, there is no taking it back.

I think that it isn't really important what is common or uncommon. I was virgin until i was 28 because i never found the right one, but now i'm happily married i have a little boy and would never change my choices. Don't let the virginity obsess you, you will know when time is right and it could be tomorrow, in a year's time or whenever. Focus more on how than on when, it will make it a better first time!

Nope. I was a virgin until I was 23 years old--I waited until I was in my first relationship with a man that I loved. For me, it wasn't important to wait till I got married, but to wait for the right person who I was in a relationship with for an extened period of time, who I loved, and who loved me. It was such a wonderful experience and I wouldn't trade it for anything. We have been together for a year and 5 months, and are still together. Don't worry about what anyone else thinks--do what's right for you because in the end, you are the only person who will always look out for you. Be proud that you're still a virgin--my friends used to always tell me how proud they were of me for it. Surround yourself by people that respect your individual choice. Good luck!

Nope. And I don't see how you could even think it was uncommon. You need to stop feeling like you gotta "catch up" to some status that society seems to dictate.

its perfectly normal to not lose your virginity, you should make sure its with some one you love and make sure they love you back and you should go with them 4 more than a year cause thats were i skrewed up cause she didnt love bout me and for that i fell stupid i wish i didnt. basically learn every thing you can and wait other wise if some thing bad does happen it will hurt more.

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Naw, when you are in college you have your first.

No a lot of people are waiting to have sex these days!

I'm 17 too and still a virgin and i'm currently in a 6 month relationship with my first boyfriend. I think that this is the part where i feel really mature for making the right decision and waiting and just living my life. Whether you've have one or 200 boyfriends does not matter, it's maturity and how you handle situations that counts. Oh yeah and i'm proud to be a virgin, i'm saving myself for my husband!!!

not at all.

Being a virgin is actually something you should be very proud of... it's not uncommon... but it is something a lot of people take for granted... if you wait... it mean a lot more...

It may be uncommon, but it is admirable.

yes, but good for you, good for you..

No, it totally common

HAVIN SEX IS GREAT!!!!! BEING A VIRGIN IS ALSO GREAT, SO IF UR UNSURE ABOUT HAVIN SEX... DONT DO IT... TAKE UR TIME ... DONT RUSH IT....

I'm 20 and I'm a virgin. It's not that I'm a prude or that guys never like me, I just have never dated a guy who pushed me into that, and I am THANKFUL for that! None of my friends think any less of me, but I'm hard on myself at times. I think many people who aren't virgins regret their first times at such young ages, because it's akward or doesn't mean anything. Plus a lot of people are embarrassed about being a virgin so they lie, and make up some random name so people won't think less of them. I had like 5 or 6 boyfriends in junior high, and had NONE in highschool, and I'm a sophomore in college and I still haven't had one! I've dated around some guys though.... but it's not the same. Then again, the last to guys I liked, one turned out to be getting divorced and has a kid and didn't tell me, and the other just went to jail, so maybe it's me? I'm a Christian but I am attracted to guys who are risk takers and mature.... and there isn't a whole lot of that going on at my college, unfortunatley. It's a situational thing, nothing you can help. You are wonderful the way you are, it's not as big of a deal as it seems, and you are definately not alone. :)

i didnt have my first real boyfriend until i was 17. so its not a big deal ^_^

No, not at all...when i was 17 i didnt really have a oficial boyfriend, i had guy friends that we cared bout each other but never went to boyfriend and girlfriend....not until i turned 20 i found my boyfriend ...so its not uncommon...