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It's very noble of you to try to establish a "one size fits all" explanation but despite what is posted here, people will want an answer to their question in their unique circumstances.
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Well sure there is, that is if you want to continue whatever pain and suffering or disrespect or mistreatment you received before the decision was made to make them your ex or vice-versa
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I personally wouldnt..they are an ex for a reason..and a little time apart may start to soften up the memories of why that is...see it over and over..friend would split up with her ex then after a couple months..amazingly amnesia set in or something because then all the sudden all she could remember were the good times..get back together and get a quick refresher course on why they split in the first place.
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I think it depends why you broke up. If you were in a loving supportive relationship, and it ended because of circumstances (not being in the right part of your life to be committed forever, or needing to pursue jobs in different places) then get back together with them if you can resolve those circumstances! If you broke up because someone was treating someone else badly, or there was a lack of love on one or both sides, then don't get back together. In the back of their minds, everyone knows this. It comes down to, do they make you feel secure and confident, or scared and inadequate?
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Say you broke up when your friend said that your partner cheated. You find out later on that it is not true. That is one case you can get back together. Never go back because of fear that you will not find anyone better. Never get back for a revenge. Do not go back because you are not happy on your own. Know what has changed since you broke up. Do you want to get back because you are jealous that he is dating others? What are chances of you breaking up again on same thing as before? Consider this all before getting back. Also there should be a break between break up and getting back. 1 month break for every year of relationship.
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Very simply: When the problem or problems that broke them up in the first place can be solved.
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If the reason why you broke up was resolved, then get back together !!!
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