Can you really be in love with someone and cheat on them at the same time?
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May be possible but highly unlikely.
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Framing the question as you do I can only answer No. However, if you had asked, "Can one really be in love with someone and cheat on them at the same time?" I think I would say Yes because I know some people who do this, despite seeming to really love their partners. It's a funny old world.
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I dont think so. How can you love someone you dont respect? and if you are cheating on them you sure dont have any respect for them!
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Up to a point I think that we are all capable of doing the wrong thing for the right reason, but to keep on doing wrong is a different matter.
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Straight answer is No. - Love is about trust, commitment, respect, honoring the other, caring about their physical/mental/emotional wellbeing. Cheating goes against all that.
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You can "love them" but not be "IN love with them" as the saying oh so bittersweetly goes. I should know been in a situation where I have had someone cheat on me. He explained at one point where he loved me more than he loved her, he still loved her, like she took up part of his love. I did not understand this. My conclusion was as previously stated that he loved us but was not in love with us. Needless to say this relationship didn't last.
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HECK NO!! Saying you love someone and then turning your back on them and cheating them is not only horrible..but completely disrespectful! I've been told that before and i didn't believe it for a second.
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I think that when you're completely "in love" with a person its because they fulfill you in every way and you don't have a need to cheat. Usually, when someone cheats its because they find something in that other person that they don't have in their own relationship.
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Not really together are these two are they?
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It's possible most likely they aren't really in love with you. It's a sad thing but tons of people confuse sexual feelings for love.
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No. If you loved that person entirely with your whole being you wouldn't need to cheat. A relationship should be based on trust, honesty and have commitment. If a person cheats and is still with someone else no matter how many times they cheat it isn't love. Often times we confuse love for something else and I have seen many people who tend to just settle and stay with the person because of comfort and yet they will cheat because they are not fulfilled in other ways.
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Absolutly. You may love them and enjoy spending time with them, but they may not fulfill your needs sexually. For example a wife may not like giving her husband oral, so he goes and gets it elsewhere, it doesn't mean he doesn't love her.
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