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  How do I get my ex girlfriend back? Hi so I’m in a situation where I know my ex still loves me and is in love with me. However the reason for this breakup (48 hrs ago) was for us to work on ourselves, to get the ball rolling on our careers and after we do that she said she promised we’d try things out again. She said she has no time for me rn because her mom just went through a kidney transplant and she needs to focus on her plus she said she doesn’t feel like she loves herself enough and before putting all 100% into me she wants to do that for herself. We took a 2 week break and she told me she felt awful because she wanted to give me attention it’s just she needs to be strong for herself and show herself that she can be responsible. So she broke things off so she doesn’t feel like I’m waiting on the sidelines for her. She also wants time for herself to do yoga and make new friends. Our breakup wasn’t bad. We talked and talked and even had sex and took a last picture of us kissing before going our separate ways. She contacted me the next morning telling me she hopes work went good and we talked for a bit then the conversation ended and restarted again at night while we were both at work. She told me during the breakup that she felt uncomfortable in the relationship because when we argue or fight I’d be an a**hole and yell and cuss at her. I told her I wanna change for myself but also for us because I realized that it’s not cool of me to be yelling over dumb things. She said she doesn’t know if things will workout in the future between us but we will try again and as long we work on ourselves rn then only good things will come. Any advice would be helpful as this time for me is hard because we told each other we’d work through anything and that our relationship could go to hell and back and we’d still love each other. I know this is hell rn I just want things to workout again.
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  My father was having girls over for the night because he recently was divorced so he wanted to get me out of the house he bribed me with his nice truck and 60 dollars to leave and go do something i crashed his truck into a fence and then got out of the truck called him and he came and pulled me out with his big rig truck we got into a fight at the house and his retaliation was calling the cops on me for a hit and run now i have court over it who is at fault me or him? His truck his insurance and i was under his insurance at the time
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  Should I cut off this friend? I have this friend of mine that can be really selfish at times. It normally happens when hes drunk. He can drink on weekends and he drinks all weekend long. He just got a DUI a few weekends ago and he told me its his 2nd but I know hes still going to court for his 2nd DUI. So I think he lied to me there. His step dad died a couple weeks ago and he never even told me about it. He never told me when the funeral was. He came over the next day and asked me for gas money. I still helped him out because it was $10. Hes not the type of friend that would go out of his way for someone either. I remember I bought beer for us when we went to this party one weekend. Then the next day he didn't even give me a ride home. He excuss was hes too hung over so I took the bus. Also if he doesn't get what he wants from someone he can get mad at them. Hes done it to me and other people. I've been thinking about ignoring him from now on.
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  I am so tired of my life, what do I do?Firstly this is not for attention so please do not attack me with cruel comments. I am only 26 and I already feel as though I have lived for way too long. My childhood was a hell filled with instabilty, parents bitterly seperating & getting back together(10 times), constant moving, verbal abuse from my whole family, physical abuse from my brother, years of isolation with little contact with the outside world (We were home schooled from the 4th grade up and lived out in the middle of nowhere) My mother hoarded cats and so from ages 13 to 20 I lived in a run down trailer that reeked of animal urine and fecal matter and I often was literally feasted on by hungry fleas (yes! They will bite humans!). My brother controlled the entire household and I was taught from an early age (by my own mother!) not to fight back or stand up for myself. So basically whatever my brother wanted or said went. My mother died at 19 but I didn't get out of that hell hole til I was nearly 21. I spent the next 3 years working my ass off at a shit job at a grocery store and found out too late that they pay no one more than 10 cents over minimum wage. I met the man who would later become ny now husband while I was working there and acquired a better paying job at a different grocery store shortly after the wedding. Although that job did not last very long but I'll get back to that shortly. I want to be up front that I was aware before we got married that my husband has aspergers. However we dated for nearly a year and a half before we even discussed marriage and there were many habits/behaviors which he did not exhibit then but he does exhibit now. Many of them I am able to deal with but there are some that I am beginning to wonder how much longer I can put up with. His job stability is horrible and he refuses to keep one job while looking for another. So I have no choice but to make up for his slack by working extra hours and finding ways to earn money from home on my few off days. He seemingly has
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  I am so tired of my life, what do I do?Firstly this is not for attention so please do not attack me with cruel comments. I am only 26 and I already feel as though I have lived for way too long. My childhood was a hell filled with instabilty, parents bitterly seperating & getting back together(10 times), constant moving, verbal abuse from my whole family, physical abuse from my brother, years of isolation with little contact with the outside world (We were home schooled from the 4th grade up and lived out in the middle of nowhere) My mother hoarded cats and so from ages 13 to 20 I lived in a run down trailer that reeked of animal urine and fecal matter and I often was literally feasted on by hungry fleas (yes! They will bite humans!). My brother controlled the entire household and I was taught from an early age (by my own mother!) not to fight back or stand up for myself. So basically whatever my brother wanted or said went. My mother died at 19 but I didn't get out of that hell hole til I was nearly 21. I spent the next 3 years working my ass off at a shit job at a grocery store and found out too late that they pay no one more than 10 cents over minimum wage. I met the man who would later become ny now husband while I was working there and acquired a better paying job at a different grocery store shortly after the wedding. Although that job did not last very long but I'll get back to that shortly. I want to be up front that I was aware before we got married that my husband has aspergers. However we dated for nearly a year and a half before we even discussed marriage and there were many habits/behaviors which he did not exhibit then but he does exhibit now. Many of them I am able to deal with but there are some that I am beginning to wonder how much longer I can put up with. His job stability is horrible and he refuses to keep one job while looking for another. So I have no choice but to make up for his slack by working extra hours and finding ways to earn money from home on my few off days. He seemingly has
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  So,im with my girlfriend for 16 months now,she staied friends with her ex that she broke up cuz she just didnt like him that way.They still txt now and then,he calls her for coffe she goes sometimes,even tho i said it makes me feel uncomfortable.We are in the bus now and shes listening to song that he wrote for her and reading the lyrics.Is this ok,should i do anything?
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  In my country the people are divided into two opposing parties. I am responsible for teaching my party members online to raise their level of education to surpass the other party. I heard from some people that a number of people from the other party would enter our educational program to sabotage and harm the reputation of our's. How to deal with them. Help me pleas i can not find a way to deal with it. Thank you
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  Help please. My friend is in trouble and I don’t know how to help her, she’s going through so much and she’s only 11. She’s an internet friend, so I just don’t know how I can help her over text. Here are her words, sorry it’s really long “It's not fair. I feel like I'm being neglected by my mom but I don't know. It's just.. Ugh. We're 11 and 12 and we haven't learned how to do laundry yet. Our mom doesn't do our laundry either. Yeah our washer is broken but there's a laundry mat not far at all from our house. But she still doesn't wash our clothes and she actually knows how to-- But like, she just lets our 61 year old grandma who is really weak and has asthma and lives in a hotel do our laundry?? When she can literally just take it to the laundry mat and do it herself Okay second off We're not getting an education since November. She pulled us out because we were being bullied but we never started any other type of school.. We haven't seen a doctor or dentist in TWO YEARS. Wtf. Make us an appointment mom A lot of times I overdosed on albuterol because..suicidal thoughts. Sadly I never died but, she didn't even take me anywhere to get help any of the times I overdosed? And she knew I overdosed? Like this has been going on for months and months. I can only have 4 puffs of albuterol in 24 hours-- I keep taking around 20-50 puffs of it in less than 5-10 minutes. Why haven't I died already?! Albuterol overdose can be fatal. It can lead to cardiac arrest or even death which is my goal. Next time I should use my whole fucking inhaler. Whenever I overdose I start feeling all shaky and weak and dizzy..and my head starts throbbing..and it gets hard to breathe and it feels like my heart is beating way too fast.. And I can't form coherent sentences and my vision gets all blurry.. I need help. She doesn't understand. All the times I overdosed, cried for no reason, yelled over nothing, felt sad and fatigued for hours and hours. She hasn't taken a fucking hint. The other day I told her I was having suicidal thoughts and t
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  I am 14. For the past months I've been experiencing an anxiety like feeling. I usually worry about things that shouldn't be worried about it shouldn't be worried about that much. Then everyday it keeps happening I keep thinking and then I over think and it could be positive but if it's negative then it will get me scared or have me keep thinking about it. And everyday I fidget or walk around non stop back and forth and when I do I think. Good or bad. I think. Most of the times I overthink and I don't want that feeling. And I can't sleep well at night and I stay up late. Not like through until the middle of the night but my bed time is usually around 10:30 or suppose to be but I usually fall asleep between 12:30 to about 2 the most. Then when I wake up everyday I feel like I need to sleep in more because I'm tired and sleepy still. That's just one problem with my sleep. The other is that I'm afraid sleeping by myself in the dark. I just think if I try to sleep peacefully then I would hear whispers or I would feel something rub on me and open my eyes someone would be there. I believe in ghost but that experience never happend with me. Meaning I know it won't happen but my anxiety is taking over making me scared and rarely panic sometimes to where I have my mom sleep with me. Or I sleep with the lights on. And next one is my ear. I think I might either have the mineres disease or tinnitus or whatever because for years I've been hearing ringing in my ears or left ear mostly . but I figured it was normal but now since I gotten smarter and mature I decided to look up what it was. But I still hear it til today like this moment. Usually at night it gets loud. But on a daily basis I can hear it but it's no big deal. I just want to get it checked out just to be on the safe side. Rarely it goes to both of my ears or spreads but mainly it's been on my left ear. It might also be on my right ear but not as much but Idk. All I know is that I hear ringing like 24/7 and there has come times where I ignore it and forget it's the
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  My name is Fabian. So there is this girl i have a big crush on, (not dating) I'm not ready to ask her out yet. But her name is Alyssa . I met her in middle school and me and her still text ALOT, like everyday. We sometimes hang out and chill. me and her care and love eachother alot, she loves me because i always been there for her, and i always made her feel better, she said she wouldn't know what she do without me. She said i am like one of the realest people out there. she said me and her will rock together forever. but these past 7 days i feel like me and her were getting dry, like if our bond wasn't the same , like if something was wrong with her. I miss texting her more, laughing and having funny and enjoyable convos, where we texted more and she replied faster. I noticed she has been sleeping in all day until 5 or 6pm , and she goes to bed earlier then usual, it made no sense to me. She also hasn't been texting anybody that much and she hasn't been on social media that much, i asked her and she "said You're the first person to actually notice. but idk, I've been sleeping a lot and idk why . Then i asked her what is causing all that and she said " I just got out of a really toxic friendship and it's been taking a huge toll on my emotions lately ". Turns out it was her bestfriend (Jony) they were really close. She really cared and trusted him. I asked what happened and she said "A lot of manipulation and mental abuse". What do you think she meant by that and what do you think might of happened? She said "We still talk a lil bit,, I just needed some space" But to be honest i don't know how to really help her, i need to find the right words to have her move on and whatever they have wasn't real anymore. I don't want her to think i am trying to talk her out her feelings, i also don't want to make her sound guilty or anything like that, i don't want to sound like An Asshole either. I am that type of person that is always going to be real with people and she knows that. I want her to be strong. Alot of people hurt