Guys out there: are shy girls considered less attractive? (in your opinion)
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curiousgal10123 - respect mah AUTHORITAY
ANSWERS: 19
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No
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No, sometimes the opposite is true.
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For my taste, shyness has nothing to do with attractiveness. If she is attractive, she is good looking and desirable, doesn't matter if she is very shy or extremely perky.
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No, if anything it's a turn-on for most of us! Most of us like the chase, a challenge, and when we encounter a girl who is unlikely to be intimate with us, due to her shyness, it's like the forbidden fruit to us. Anonymous: It depends on the endurance of the guy, some will think "Nah, f**k it" and some will think "Ooh, all the more the challenge!" But never less attractive.
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negative...it just makes that harder to get.
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Not in the least bit!
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its not like i have a thing for talkative girls but a girl talking to ME turns me on.
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no, its much harder work...
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I LOVE shy girls!
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Nope. It makes them even more mysterious.
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Self-confidence is very attractive, so lack of it can mean lack of that element of attactiveness. Plus, I'm married now, but when I was dating, I was so pathetic at just starting to talk to women that if a woman was shy I probably wouldn't have talked to her - too "hard" for me to make the approach, keep up a light conversation when she's not contributing, and things like that.
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People who are comfortb;e in their own skin is always very attractive
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If you're just talking about physical attractiveness, no, being sht doesn't matter. However, conversation is needed to build a relationship. Difficult at first, but if she warms up (converstionally), no big deal. On the flip side, someone who is not really attractive can be because she is outgoing. There is something to be said about the stereotype "She's got a great personality"
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definately not, more interesting....
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Quite the opposite for me. All the loud and poplar girls can get you into trouble, and i'm not a person who wants my whole life being known by everyone. I'd want to be with my girlfriend in private [at least at the start of a relationship] so we could get to know each other better, and still after that i wouldn't like everyone knowing everything about us and would rather just me and her :)
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no! probs realy interesting when you get to know them.
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I don't know why you guys think a shy girl would be less attractive. It will not effect how much guys like you, it may just appeal to different guys.
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Shy girls are usually hard to get close to at first but usually open up once you start to get more comfortable. Shyness has nothing to do with being less attractive. Personally, i like shy women even though i'm the complete counter part.
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shy girls are more fun because its the effort that is put towards the girl to try to get her to talk that is worth it. and when she starts opening up to ya its more rewarding :)
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