About what age do guys sex drive decrease? I'm a 30 year female and damn my sex drive has never been this high. My husband is 38 and even though we have sex, it doesn't seem like it's no big deal if he goes a week without sex.

Guys' sex drives are the highest when they're younger, from teens-early (or mid) 20's. Womens' sex drives increase at about 30 or a little older. You guys are normal, no worries.

I think it depends on the man. My dad was a horny seventy something man when he fathered me. :)

although I can't get it up as often as I did 10 or 20 years ago, I still look forward to sex just about every day.

I hear that from my male friends. Some take anti-derpressants.
I'm 56 and all I think aboput is women and sex. Have since I was 10. I am free about every week day

I'm almost 32 and mine is as high as ever.

A mans sex drive goes away when his wife gets ugly. Give him a perky 18 year old cheer leader and back cums the sex drive. This does not mean he does not love you. It just means sex is based on apearance.

Technically guys sex drive peaks (so I am told) at about 18 years old and then slowly drop off from there. HOWEVER, I certainly do NOT have that experience. I have found that each year that goes by my sexual libido has increased constantly. I am now 41 years old and I can cum just as often as I did when I was younger (up to 10 times a day if the opportunities present).

I think that life gets in the way of good sex as people get older (work, money, general life stresses) and people mistake that for a decrease in sex drive. When you are 18yrs old you just dont give a fuck, but when you are 35 yrs old you are out trying to make money and the stress of that cuts down your sexual appetite. If you do not have that stress, and if both partners are into it, I believe a guy can screw many many times a day well into their 50's or even later.

I, sort of agree with Bugs Bunny's answer, I'm 42, and my B/F is 41 and we have sex at least, every day, and sometimes, 2 or 3 times a day, and our sex drive is as high, if not higher than it ever was. I think it's a lot, attitude as much as anything. We do things of a sexual nature, with, and to each other all the time, in the supermarket, walking down the sidewalk, in front of other people. My B/F has no problem copping a feel anywhere. We just feel and act like kids, most of the time. I think that's the secret. Sex, for us, is as natural as breathing. And I don't see it changing any time soon, for either of us.

I think that this varies depending on the man. It is high in the 18-25 range and can go down at 35. If a guy is active and older it doesn't really matter and his genetics plays a part. But, basically, it is true that men are highest around 18.

There are huge differences between individuals. Some people have seemingly no or almost no sex drive even in youth, other have exceedingly. My and my wife's is not diminished at all after 47 years of marital life (we are both 68), even though my potency considerably is: it started to decline slowly when I was about 50, but is still quite satisfying. I make up for the decreased number of my actual penetrations by longer and more variegated, more skillful hand-job than in former days and by increased intimacies – which are recommendable for young people as well – so that even now we make love during hours, at least once a week, and she would be willing to do it every day. (If she had additional sexual partners I wouldn't oppose at all, but she never wanted to. Only once she had sex with a friend in my one month long absence but was a bit disappointed.) Once I made love with many girls and young women but to my surprise my wife always had and still has a sex drive by far greater than the "horniest" of those women and she has orgasms incomparably easier, longer, more numerous and more intense. - When two sex-drives, husband's and wife's, don't match each other I think one can help with pharmaceutical products, but love, fantasy and intimacy can help a lot as well.

You sound like my wife and I, we found a cure for that problem -

Try lighting a couple scented candles in the bedroom, turn off all other lights and the TV, slowly undress in front of if him down to absolutely nothing, then get in bed and lightly rub his chest, tummy, and work your way down.
It's all in creating the right mood for sex and guys are just not very good at such things.
Give it a try and let me know how it works out... ;~)

I know just how you feel. I'm much older than you and hornier than I've ever been. My husband has not got a lot of interest either. Frustrating!!!!

The Wife and I have been together for 16 years and have always done it 2X a week and sometimes 2X on Saturday nights because she has some wine and doesn't feel my Grasp!

There is no set age for anyone.

As time goes on yours will decrease especially if and when you have kids and go through menopause. Most likely then your drive will decrease, most likely will be less than his.

By Golly, I was divorced when I was 27, and I went through hell for 2 years, because my often unsatisfied sex drive would drive me crazy. My pulse was racing, I had trouble sleeping, I had unbelievable dreams . . . My ex wife, two years older than I, went through similar problems, we would meet for any reason one of us made up, and start having sex within minutes. Even in the middle of the night, sleeping in the same bed, just a casual contact, even while sleeping, was often enough and caused us to start again with foreplay and the whole nine yards immediately, and afterwards, we both swore, that none of us has started it.

Even years ago, after both having met other people, we still had the greatest time with each other.

One benefit of getting older: masturbating is more satifying and a solution to the problem, than in younger years, although sexual fantasies in men still don't disappear completely. Most older women seem to have a much easier time with no sex for years and avoiding any situation that might potentially lead to sex. When they are younger, they never seem to run out of reasons to do it. When they get older, they never seem to run out of reasons NOT do do it.

Very frustrating, the whole topic, unless two people with similar appetites and preferences have met to enjoy each other at the same pace. When that happens, sex and the sex drive is a blessing. Having a huge appetite and no one to do it with, is a curse. Unbelievable, what kind of fantasies the brain can produce, if a huge sex drive remains unsatisfied over large amounts of time. Even in older years, the longing for a good partner never really stops completely.

i m male my drive is high when i was 14 but now i m 25 still my drive is increased now from three months i like women in there early 40ties and got wet when i see sexy women of that age

it decrease once you have kids at that point you start taking viagra. if you dont end up having kids your sex drives doesnt realy decreas I dont have any problem and im 41 with no kids noblue pill needed here...