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  • My advice would be to not answer a call or 2 from her so she realises you have a life without her now. I'm sure you miss talking to her and want to answer her calls incase she changes her mind but it sounds like she's just using you for a back up. Don't be second best. Maybe subtly let her know you won't be there for her if she keeps doing it by having some plans of your own instead of being there whenever she wants you to be there. It's hard to know what advice to give in these situations, but I hope that helps. Be strong, go with what your head is telling you (not your heart) and you'll thank yourself for it later.
  • I’m going through the same thing right now. My ex keeps stringing me along just in case the flavor of the month doesn’t work out. He will call me when it’s convenient for him, just to make sure I’m still around. I would suggest ignoring the phone calls and letting them figure out that you’re not always going to be there because you have to move on with your life. They need to realize how important you were to them and maybe they will wake up, but if not there is always someone better out there for you.

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