Other than killing the cat, curiosity doesn't hurt. It doesn't make you gay or bi. Talk to your man about it honestly.

if you have to question to yourself if the sex could be better with someone else, your man is definately NOT good in bed. and he never will be, if you have given him instructions on what MIGHT feel better, but he has yet to follow through. for example..i was with my man for 2 years...and i thought we had a pretty nice time...he was never rough, always gentle and slow paced... but you know what i found out after he died and i got a new man? i like it super fast and hard.to me, that is good.but to my friends, they don't enjoy it like that...they complain that their boyfriends don't slow it down when they tell them to, or they slow down but quickly speed it up again after a few minutes.and for them, the sex is bad. you don't have to break up, but you can attempt to re-train him to fuck you the right way..or you can learn how to ride on top and fuck him the way you want to be fucked. **************** AS FOR THE BEING A LESBIAN THING::: REALITY CHECK-YOU ARE IN A RELATIONSHIP. cheating is cheating, whether its with a man or a woman. so what if you were bi afterall?you are still in a relationship with a man, so you are still monogamous to him. going out to experiment with a woman to see if it is for you would still be cheating. i have weighed the pro's and con's of this situation, and i feel the best answer for you would be to break up with your man if you can't communicate your needs to him. you will be able to find another partner eventually, man or woman, and if it doesn't work out the way you thought, you can always try to get back together with your boyfriend later.

tell him if u want to, but u don't have to feel obligated..think he tells u when he thinks girls are hot and he's attracted to some1 else? no. he doesn't. relax..u may be bi, and its all good if u are or if ur not. it may be a one time thing or something that grows...u'll be fine either way

girl dont do it to urself..... if u want to be happy turn ur boyfriend into a lesbian. if u cant then go with one.

technically, you're bi-curious, I'm the same way. My thought is, "accept love in any form it comes in" and here I use love loosely as love and lust. as to the bf.....yeah I'd trade him in.

I am not able to understand how people can be bad at sex unless they are a minute man, which can usualy be dealt with. I guess it just comes naturaly to me, though the only person who I have to gauge on had only had 3 others who somehow sucked.

I believe you are pretty normal. I hear lots of women talk about fantasies of other women...and getting turned on. But they have never...nor would ever (they say)...act out their fantasy.

are...... its a general question..!!! you know something ....everybody thinks in her ..life wether he or she is bi? or homo? n one more fact..every girl has somewhat lesbian instinct ....so dont worry babes.. just chill out ...!!

i cant tell you if you are gay or not but what I can say is just because you fantasize of women and are turned on by them sexually doesnt mean you are gay or even bi. I speak from experience.

I dont think it makes you anything but curious.And tell your boyfrined what you like,hopefully he's man enough to listen.

It sounds to me that you are bi-curious and you are not alone. i do think that the bigger issue here is the fact that your boyfriend does not satisfy you sexually. I am a firm believer that ANYONE can be a good lover as long as you train them right! Be more vocal about what you like and dislike. In many cases bad sex is a result of bad communication. Good Luck!

If you are looking for another good man to be good in bed, then i am here, othrwise you are not away to become lesbian soon.

ok if u dont feel any thing wen ur dating or fuckin a guy ur lesbian if u do ur bi sinple