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by frequentuser on August 22nd, 2008
why are the good looking chicks fickle bitches and the average ones are so damn sweet?!
by LynfromNM on July 8th, 2007
I think you're looking at it backwards. If a guy is "so dam sweet", he is the best looking guy there is.
by germaster on July 8th, 2007
because lots of women are attracted to the assholes and the nice guys finish last.
by MRSHINYSHOES on August 28th, 2008
The same reason why a lot of good looking girls are vain and bitchy. They're spoiled by their good looks all their lives----they "know" they are good looking, from the way others treat them, from what they hear, etc., so they grow up with the attitude that no one else really matters except themselves. Hence, they mistreat people and act as though others are insignificant. The average-looking ones are sweet because they "speak" from the heart and do not rely on their physical appearance to impress people. They are honest about who they are, and as such, are more open and approachable. They have a lot to give.
by urk on August 27th, 2008
I'm a package deal! I'm an ugly asshole!!
by Sheriff Raff -Answerhag on July 8th, 2007
the good looking guys are assholes because they think they are better than you are in the looks department
the average looking guys have no self esteem and that is why they treat you like gold
if you marry an average looking guy, the chances of him straying and cheating are less likely than the drop dead gorgeous guy.
by CheddarCatsKiss is Queen of Sexytown on August 28th, 2008
average looking guys who are so sweet, are he best looking guys to me. Cuz in 40 years the good looking assholes won't look good but will still be assholes. The average looking guys will still look average and will still be sweet. But I think the average ones still have good self esteem, because they know they are good people. Assholes are usually assholes because they lack self esteem.
by cobber on August 27th, 2008
SCREW YOU!
:)
by Buddy Boy on August 27th, 2008
There is a package deal. I call him my boyfriend.
by PeteO1970 on July 3rd, 2009
Because you base your attraction then entirely on looks and you have prejudice against attractive guys based on some prior event where you allowed yourself to be trapped in a crap situation based only on physical attraction.
Also, women are attracted to confidence. There is a very fine line between confidence and dickhead. Confidence easily plays out as "attractive" to women. Most dickhead types know this and play off of it. If you want proof, just read some "how do I meet women?" guides online. "confidence confidence confidence!"
Likewise, "shy" often and easily plays out as "snobby" to women. I would guess that these jerk guys of which you speak approach you, whereas the "nice guys" don't, or you're friends with them, or a friend of a friend, or a hook-up from a friend (friend says "he's a really great guy, just shy, but really nice, he needs a date!") but you're not WOWed by them as their lack of confidence becomes more apparent.
I would bet also that you're in your 20-30s when people want the hot bodies and crazy confidence and wild fun type thing rather than "nice and comfy"- and that you're getting to the phase where you're beginning to want to settle down but see all of your previous choices as fun but relationship failure types (one night stands with a hot bod doesn't require much beyond "put cock in pussy!" in terms of conversational skill)
Why don't you go out and find a guy without much confidence, at the club maybe a drink-sipper-wall-hanger guy, and not the satin shirt unbuttoned to rock hard abs pop-n-locking dance floor wannabe. Look for an attractive guy that you might consider a bit snobby and standoffish, likely he's just shy. Approach him yourself, instead of being dragged onto the dancefloor by wannabe pop-n-lock who gets you wasted and into bed.
Hookup through facebook or something first instead of rolling out of the club drunk with mr.dickhead for a one nighter. Chances are wall-hanger dances better anyway.
Just remember about confident guys, "confidence" is what the "con" in "con-man" and "con-game" stands for.
Read those "how to pick up women" guides online and identify those characteristics in guys and avoid the heck out of them because 9 times out of 10 they're dickheads just wanting to get laid.
Now, there IS the other 1 out of 10 in that category also, who would also be likely prime for what you're looking for, so it is not an exact science. But go for awkward rather than confident, I say.
And also identify your priorities because you get what you look for. No one is forcing themselves on you (and if they are that is a different problem entirely). And remember to say NO to guys. The type you want is probably too much in their shell to be so forward as to elicit you having to say NO anyway.
by VS Angel aka Mrs. Stealth Intelligence on August 28th, 2008
I don't agree...some good-looking guys are sweet and some average guys are not. Looks matter only before you get to speak to someone and then they either get better looking or go downhill (for me anyway).
Maybe we just have different tastes, but I think the personality really adds to someone's looks. You can see beauty in the eyes and in the smile--those are my "hot" points.
There are many "package deals" out there
...as a matter of fact there are a few right here on AB.
:D
I'm making a special wish for you to find your "package deal" soon.
by Aintthatapip - Kevonian Overlord on August 27th, 2008
Maybe, and really this is just a maybe I don't know you at all.
You are just an annoying ***t, and not worth the time. Maybe.
by FreshApples on August 27th, 2008
oh come on were not ALL That bad
by Scott on August 27th, 2008
maybe the good looking guys are just stuck up cause they know they're good looking and the average ones know they have to make up for not being good looking, Maybe your looking in the wrong places for men or maybe your not looking in the right way for men. Do you think you are a package deal?
by gtravels loves her life penguin on August 27th, 2008
I must have lucked out somehow. I got a good looking sweet one;)
by dark_leota on August 27th, 2008
lol sorry. I am of no help. I married my package deal.
by TAPriceCTR s son is wearing his COAT on August 27th, 2008
A: because women teach them how to behave.
B: what kind of arrogant wench are you that average looks are grosely inadequate. I can see not wanting ugly guys, but average. SNOB! then again I guess I consider 90% of us guys ugly.
by Touch_of_The_Masters_Hand on July 3rd, 2009
Here's a few questions for you. Why do you have to have both? What makes you think you deserve a good looking guy who is sweet? and while I'm at it why can't you just be happy with the average looking guy who is sweet?
The one bad thing about AB is Avatar pics are so small that it's difficult to see them real good unless you have the vision of superman. But judging from what I can see you look very young I'd say early to mid 20's at most.If I'm right I suspect you haven't grown up yet because if you have then you wouldn't be asking this question because grown ups realize that there are a billion more important things to look for in a partner than how good looking s/he is.
Real Mature adults put looks somewhere near the midway or lower part of their list of priorities of what they want in a partner because they are mature enough to realize that over time physical looks fade away but inner beauty and personality rarely ever changes
by Simply Salsa... on April 14th, 2009
You calling me an asshole?
by answersac21 on December 11th, 2008
call me....
by Anon on December 11th, 2008
Sorry, I'm taken already.
by Kravenhead on December 4th, 2008
....
by NoFlyZone on December 4th, 2008
i think the same holds for good looking women being a biatch.
by BombDisposal on December 4th, 2008
hahaha coz good looking guys can afford to be assholes, they dont need to snivel around women catching there tear like nice guys do!
that is why you like them, they possess confidence and the ability to flaunt their sexuality without caring.
oh and a big tip to all the girls, you cannot change an asshole no matter how hard you try!
oh and not all good looking guys are assholes!
best advise is to approach good looking guys coz 9 times out of 10 the ones that have the confidence to apprach you will be an asshole!!!
by micahhenry on November 10th, 2008
not to toot my own horn but i am the whole package ;)
by Anonymous on November 5th, 2008
I have no idea what you're talking about. I'm average and I am not a nice person. As far as the self esteem issue goes, it's a mute point. I find all humans to be equally worthless.
by Hans Schecter on August 31st, 2008
Why can't you overlook the physical part and go with the one that last forever. Looks come and go but personality lasts forever as it's said.
Don't look for perfection as it doesn't exist instead look for love and you won't be disappointed.
by Ramblin Ricky on August 31st, 2008
Based on your question, if you were to find a "package" man then that would make you either a good looking a-hole, or average looking sweetheart.
by RosieGHM Jetpacker on August 28th, 2008
Of course, that isn't always true all the time for everyone. But I think it is because women fall apart at the feet of good looks, make fools of themselves over these guys, make them believe they're special because of their looks and the guys end up believing they are god's gift to women..the women create it, simply by fawning over the cute guy and ignoring the nice guy. Happy Thursday to you! :)
by hipnotic on August 27th, 2008
Package deals are SOLD OUT:)
by DA BEN DAN yanggui zi on August 27th, 2008
Your question simply isn't true...I know some really hot looking, genuinely nice guys.
by Moosemose on August 27th, 2008
#1 - there is no "package deal" people are who they are. Now if you meet a man who treats you like the special person you are, THEN you have found a jewel in disquise.
It's not the looks you should focus on, it's the heart.
by katie7576 on August 27th, 2008
don't you think that maybe the nice ones are the package deal? looks don't mean anything, sure there has to be a physical attraction but a package deal has nothing to do with looks, think about that or you could miss out on something great
by Dmitri on August 27th, 2008
I am sweet and not exactly ugly . . .
by Anonymous on August 27th, 2008
Because women tend to walk all over sweet guys and eventually get bored with them, or they enjoy someone new flirting with them. Us attractive men were taught one way or the other that Women are only people like us. and truth is, most handsome men are rejected at some points after approaching a woman JUST because it wasnt a great approach.. so.....when we do have an abundance of women in our lives, we notice that they shouldnt be worshiped. and we wont take ANY chances of being the super nice sweet guy that buys her dinner everyday. WE will be nice and sweet but hard to get when we first meet you though....
by Anonymous on August 22nd, 2008
I think there are lots of good looking guys out there who come with great personalities :)
by Scrappy on August 22nd, 2008
I always thought that the good looking guys were gay or taken, the average looking guys were assholes or just interested. Then all the other guys who are interested in me and expect me to care for them: ones that won't work, don't have a car, take me out to dinner and I have to buy for both of us, etc. what I call the "sponge off the women" men.
by 007 plus Maverick equals Pure Awesome on August 22nd, 2008
I don't consider myself an asshole, but I don't consider my self so dam sweet either. I do think i am good looking though. I consider myself the package deal.
by scubaduba on July 8th, 2007
There is a package deal, but I married him so he's off the market now.
by American idle on July 8th, 2007
There is. Victoria Beckham got him already.
by Barcaluv on July 8th, 2007
That's too broad a generalization, in my opinion.
It's true that some people's good physical appearance might go to their head and make them feel a false sense of superiority. But that does not happen ALL the time.
by Fiddle Playing Creole Bastard on October 13th, 2009
Hey, I'm not an asshole! ;)
by Me7654 on September 22nd, 2009
Well i don't know about that!! But you should see me!!
I am good looking, and sweet!! I am the true package deal!! ;)
by His Lordship... has left on September 22nd, 2009
We are not all that bad. Come on. True, most of us are gay however.
by Ganja_Goddess on July 3rd, 2009
Because the assholes know they're good looking and know they can use it to their advantage. I must say though, I know more decent good looking guys than rotten ones.
by Sharona Life is a Tale Told by an Idiot on July 3rd, 2009
Ego run rampant.
by Kitsune on July 3rd, 2009
My husband is hot, and the sweetest man in the world. He's MINE! ;)
by IntotheForge on July 3rd, 2009
Greatness is inversely proportional to population - the greater they are, the fewer they are, and the greater a pool of women they get to select from due to their greatness. Most of the people above are right about self-importance, except for one thing - it's necessary for self-confidence. The sweet guys genuinely care about the world around them more than making sure they look fuckable.
by Macmedic and yet ... here I am on July 3rd, 2009
Hey Guy --- Its not them its YOU.
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The heart knows who the heart loves.
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Unfortunately your heart is brand new, never been used.
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by sincerely on April 25th, 2009
Because the good looking guys truly care about themselves more than the woman or guy they are going out with. Pride is what makes them assholes. It is one of The Seven Deadly Sins and that is why they will "reap what they sow." Those guys don't deserve good women.
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Touche
by arborvitae on August 22nd, 2008
Yeah.
by Symbeline on August 22nd, 2008
Hahaha!. Damn. +6
by Anonymous on August 22nd, 2008
Are the average ones all really sweet?
by UneFille on August 28th, 2008
haha loved this answer!
by Lilly on December 11th, 2008
Well, can't speak for everyone, but personally it's mind over matter on this subject too. I think two of the girls I've liked have been quite good-looking, none of them hotties though, mostly due to clothing I think=)
Looks more or less doesn't matter to me... It hasn't hindered me before, good is that, have enough hindrances as is.
by Karkhan on December 18th, 2008