What is the one thing you DO NOT tolerate in a relationship?
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Rickster is victorious
ANSWERS: 100
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Infidelity :)
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Lies
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lies/drug usage [occasional pot smoking and occasional drinking is okay.]
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Dishonesty/secrets.
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physical or verbal abuse
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lying/cheating.
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Outright lies ... I can handle the hiding of a secret with the use of silence, or changing the subject, but a false statement will not be tolerated.
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bullying
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There is no one. There are four things, equally. Physical abuse. Emotional abuse. Infidelity. Lies.
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Dishonesty and physical abuse. I will not allow either one to be part of my life.
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hitting. Hit me once am I am gone. I was young a stupid when I HAD to make that rule. Now, dang, they'd be in serious trouble they couldn't escape from.
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Abusive behavior. And that includes cheating, because that is emotional abuse.
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Rabies. It's a deal-breaker. My girlfriend knows to stay away from squirrels and raccoons that are foaming at the mouth.
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I don't like it when a girl I'm dating purposely tries to make me feel jealous. Next!!
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I always had a zero tolorance policy with NO TYPE of abuse with my kids.
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LIEING! ugh I hate liars
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Lying.
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Inequality
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Addictive drugs. They just dont mix well with a relationship.
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Emotional Abuse. Just about anything else I can eventually forgive, but when someone is purposefully hurting me and manipulating my emotions for their own benefit, one chance, then it's over. Of course, emotional abuse usually comes conveniently packaged along with other kinds of abusive behavior, so it's kind of an umbrella term here.
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Abuse, lies, cheating. You hit me, I'm packing my stuff faster than you can say "restraining order". You start lying to me, this means something is wrong, and something needs to be changed pronto. If you can't trust me and I can't trust you, that's not the kind of relationship I'm looking for. Cheating- I will never tolerate cheating. Ever. Again, I'd be packing faster than you can say "Unik".
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Cheating....Duh!!!
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Cheating....Duh!!!
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Someone who isn't honest, and someone who won't trust me!!
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Abuse.. I wouldn't tolerate that at all.. It would only take once. There wouldn't be any, "Oh Baby, I'm so sorry. It'll never happen again." Your damnn right It wouldn't happen again. I'd pick something up, knock his ass out and leave. Forget packing. I'll buy new stuff.
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cheating
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Abuse
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Richard Simmons.
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Abuse of any form , from now on
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any form of dishonesty (includes abuse)
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I'll never tolerate a man putting his hands on me out of anger again. Next time, the coroner is going to be called and it won't be for me.
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farting in the sack,thats a hell no...
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Besides abuse like everyone else, I will no longer tolerate any infidelity.
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Abuse of any kind. Definite NO NO
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Abuse (physical, verbal, sexual or otherwise) Infidelity Superiority Arrogance Laziness Disrespect Dishonesty I could go on, but the list is getting rather long :)
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lyijng. If they lie, then they also cheat, etc...
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Lack of committment to make the relationship successful.
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Cheating- it is the most disrespectful act anyone could do to a love one
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Lies. If they lie to you about anything...they are lying to themselves too. Who would want to be with a person that can lie to themself? It's weak.
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Cheating. Absolutely not. and that's one thing the both of us have decided. NO cheating!!! (although I did lose 3000 dollars in a banking accident and that almost did count as cheating...whaaaa.... but it made my short term memory loss problem very much apparent so I did get the help I needed but 3 K????!!)
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No communication must be one of thee most frustrating flaws in a relationship. My last bf would not communicate at all. I would initiate a discussion about something important that we needed to talk about and he would change the subject. It's no wounder he thought i cheated on him.
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Misplacement of the remote control. 3 strikes and your OUTTA there!!
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Abuse of any kind
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cheating.... why cheat when you can jus tell that person that you dont wanna be with them???
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Mushrooms on my pizza.
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Stealing my organs while I'm napping.
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there is so much I don't tolerate but if I can pick just one I would have to say jealousy I have been there and done that and will never do it again I happen to have alot of female friends and I know nothing would ever happen with 99.999% of them because I am far from a good looking man and most of them are to vain and shallow to go for someone who is not good lookingyet for wahtever reason an ex of mine felt I was supposed to cut off all of my friendships because she had issues with it it got to the point where I was sneaking behind her back to talk to these women just to avoid an ugly confrontation with her over it I finally decided I was no better than her for hiding it so I left and never looked back since
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Physical abuse. I will never tolerate any man hitting me or any of my daughters.
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dishonesty
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I've got a list for this one and there all equal. 1.Lying. Do not ever lie to me. I will find out the truth and when I do I'm calling you out. 2.Drugs and alcholoism. You want a beer every once in awhile fine by me. In fact bring me a drink. But if you're doing drugs even if it's pot smoking or drinking every day move on. I'm not cleaning up your messes. 3.Going outside of the realtionship for any kind of sexual gratification. No cheating, no porn, no strippers, and no threesomes or swinging. If you want someone else be a man and tell me so we can end it before you disrespect me. You wanna see a naked chick? No, problem here, but I better be seeing a naked guy as fast as I get undressed. You want a lap dance? Well, sit down and hold on tight. 4. Abuse of any kind. You hit me and I take you out. Play mind games and I'll screw your mind up so tight it breaks. Touch my kids in any way that is not as a parent should and I kill you. Slowly. 5. No communication. Sorry, no talking no relationship.
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cheating...was cheated on my first marriage...been married 30 years this time...do not take it for granted, but he would never cheat...and never would I..lying would be second
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well, not one, but a small cluster: lying cheating emotionally (or physically) abusive inability to commit except for the physical abuse, my ex was guilty of all of these and I put up with it longer than I should have. I'm now with someone who'd done none of those things, and loves me just the way I am!
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Lying or infidelity.
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guys who are unemployed and lazy bums who expect me to support them.
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Jealousy
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Dishonesty...
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constant criticism
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dishonesty, infedelity and disrespect. I realize it says one thing, but they tie :D
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I do not tolertae if someone betray me
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unappreciation & stubborness
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Dishonesty
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Disrespect If you respect someone, you wont cheat, lie, hurt them, physically or mentally.
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hitting on other girls orr dishonest.
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Cheating, I guess.
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i do not tolerate disrespect
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A lack of respect.
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Not faithful to a spouse >>>>>>>(cheating)<<<<<<
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Nagging
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Well that knife in the back thing would usually end a relationship for me.
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Being abused in any way.
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Okay-infidelity or abuse are deal breakers off the bat. For me however, the lame excuses, lousy apologies, drunkenness-more than sober, lack of attention, the arguments, loss of my libido and loss of my self esteem, the stress and the snoring sent me packing after 10 years.
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Marriage to another person
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Cheating or abuse; can't pick one or the other.
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someone who is trying to control me.. let me be a free spirit!!!
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Abuse of any kind.
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castration.
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castration.
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being unreliable - your butt is out the door if i cant count on you for anything anytime, respect for each other is important too
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cheating
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lies and Infidelity ....
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Lies.
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smoking and drinking.
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Without a doubt that would be lack of respect !!
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Lies. Once the trust is broken, the relationship is over.
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The other party.
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constantly a boy being like "are you with guys...your cheating on me..i want to break up..ILOVEYOU!" jesus all relationships are based on is trust...if thereis no trust there is norelationship
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Lack of respect. If you can't show me and others proper respect in all things, then see ya!
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Dishonesty and being talked down to. I guess you could sum that up as disrespectful behavior.
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I cannot tolerate disrespect in a relationship. Name calling, back biting, un-necessarily hateful acts and/or messages. I am a very respectful person and as long as you treat me equally. If every argument has to be filled with disrespect, then we would soon part ways.
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A few things, which can be categorized together: Ignorance/immaturity/closed mindedness. As an example I don't want to hear my guy stating something to the effect of 'We're not doing that, that's stupid/weird/sick'. I don't just mean in a sexual conversation, but anything. I cannot stand someone who says something out of the 'ordinary/conventional' is stupid/weird/sick/wrong etc. Closed mindedness is my BIGGEST turn off (which can also go together with ignorance).
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if one is cheater......how can catch him....he gives a feeling of trust always....what to do.....one is unable to find out proof.....here should tolerate him until..
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bad blow jobs.
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domestic abuse!!! men who hit women are nothing but cowards
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distrust and dishonesty other than that i don't ask for much but a little attention here and there.
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dishonesty..the truth I can live with...
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Physical abuse. Emotional abuse.
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I think that if you love the person through and through, unless its like abuse or bad breath or something along those lines then you should love and tolerate everything about them, cuz their probally doing the same for you. I dunno just an opinion
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1. hitting 2. lieing 3. cheating 4. disrespecting my family i know thats 4 things but i dont think there is one of those thats more tolerable then the other
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Abuse, of any kind.
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I will not tolerate abuse {been there}! Nor will I tolerate being talked down to!
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