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by Zombies on July 3rd, 2007
There is no one. There are four things, equally.
Physical abuse.
Emotional abuse.
Infidelity.
Lies.
by Gonzo on July 5th, 2007
Addictive drugs. They just dont mix well with a relationship.
by Madame Riverotter on August 29th, 2007
Cheating. Absolutely not. and that's one thing the both of us have decided. NO cheating!!!
(although I did lose 3000 dollars in a banking accident and that almost did count as cheating...whaaaa.... but it made my short term memory loss problem very much apparent so I did get the help I needed but 3 K????!!)
by Midnighttoker on July 3rd, 2007
lying/cheating.
by DreAnna on July 3rd, 2007
Infidelity :)
by Nice on July 3rd, 2007
bullying
by Marj on July 3rd, 2007
Lies
by I love my baby on July 4th, 2007
I always had a zero tolorance policy with NO TYPE of abuse with my kids.
by richie rich on August 4th, 2007
farting in the sack,thats a hell no...
by PokkiTokki on April 27th, 2008
Avocados.
by Deonymous on February 12th, 2008
Ignorance.
by Katie on July 3rd, 2007
hitting. Hit me once am I am gone. I was young a stupid when I HAD to make that rule. Now, dang, they'd be in serious trouble they couldn't escape from.
by Jewel on July 3rd, 2007
Dishonesty and physical abuse. I will not allow either one to be part of my life.
by Penny The Wise on July 5th, 2007
Abuse, lies, cheating.
You hit me, I'm packing my stuff faster than you can say "restraining order".
You start lying to me, this means something is wrong, and something needs to be changed pronto. If you can't trust me and I can't trust you, that's not the kind of relationship I'm looking for.
Cheating- I will never tolerate cheating. Ever. Again, I'd be packing faster than you can say "Unik".
by Kevin B. ABFB on July 3rd, 2007
Rabies. It's a deal-breaker. My girlfriend knows to stay away from squirrels and raccoons that are foaming at the mouth.
by kidalbino on July 3rd, 2007
Abusive behavior. And that includes cheating, because that is emotional abuse.
by Takei-Shihan on July 3rd, 2007
Outright lies ... I can handle the hiding of a secret with the use of silence, or changing the subject, but a false statement will not be tolerated.
by UneFille on September 30th, 2008
Cheating or just plain lying. The worst is lying about cheating. YUCK.
by R U Sirius on August 29th, 2007
Misplacement of the remote control. 3 strikes and your OUTTA there!!
by Scifisuz on July 5th, 2007
Inequality
by Sheriff Raff -Answerhag on July 3rd, 2007
physical or verbal abuse
by Eltinwe has a life Swan - DYOH on July 3rd, 2007
Dishonesty/secrets.
by cupcakexcutie on July 3rd, 2007
lies/drug usage [occasional pot smoking and occasional drinking is okay.]
by Emzabb on May 7th, 2008
anyone abbusive....physically or verbally
a lack of respect
a lack of trust
by my_litch91 on October 23rd, 2007
smoking and drinking.
by rigby on October 17th, 2007
being unreliable - your butt is out the door if i cant count on you for anything anytime, respect for each other is important too
by The Devils Own on July 30th, 2007
Abuse
by Gina on July 5th, 2007
Abuse.. I wouldn't tolerate that at all.. It would only take once. There wouldn't be any, "Oh Baby, I'm so sorry. It'll never happen again." Your damnn right It wouldn't happen again. I'd pick something up, knock his ass out and leave. Forget packing. I'll buy new stuff.
by Hotmom1179 on July 5th, 2007
Someone who isn't honest, and someone who won't trust me!!
by unknown on July 5th, 2007
Cheating....Duh!!!
by RockRchick on July 4th, 2007
LIEING! ugh I hate liars
by ezhammer on July 3rd, 2007
I don't like it when a girl I'm dating purposely tries to make me feel jealous. Next!!
by KayTay08 on September 25th, 2009
lying/cheating/texting or talking other girls
by Im to YOUNG for you on September 18th, 2009
Cheating....and then lying about it even when you know that he/she did! oh and being uber obnoxius...:0)
by Lamona on September 7th, 2009
I always said (and believed) I wouldn't tolerate lying from my boyfriend but he's lied to me about one thing throughout most of our relationship. I'm so torn and don't know if I should stay or go because I want to do both. He says the deceit will now stop so I can try to trust him but I have so much doubt (as you would). I think he's a total bastard and I could find someone that treats me with more respect. I also think he's ultra cool and he makes me feel something I haven't before but now I don't know if it's all an act, lie or how far the deceit goes. I know anyone else in their right mind would dump this guy but I'm so soft and care too much.
by Torrie Chick on July 31st, 2009
abuse, constant dishonesty, and them not excepting that u have diferences
by Anonymous on June 15th, 2009
abuse...cheating is just questioning your love for someone and lying about it...everyone questions their relationships and think about what it would be like to be with someone else, but if someone is abusive that is something that is mentally wrong with the person they cant change that about themselves...cheating is completly wrong and ppl get hurt badly sometimes it is just that person being a whore but i think abuse is worse
by K8eBug on September 30th, 2008
My mate used to date a guy that told her all the time how hot all her mates were. Thats gotta suck.
by kate747 on September 30th, 2008
violence!
by go_go_demented on September 30th, 2008
Cheating.
if you're gonna cheat you shouldn't be in a relationship.
it's thee worst thing.
by dancer10 on August 8th, 2008
abuse.
cheating.
hurtfull lies.
by starrrgazer on July 17th, 2008
I do not tolerate two things- disrespect and dishonesty.
by Carin on July 8th, 2008
ofcourse, abuse, lies, ect.
but i can't tolerate clinginess! or INSECURITY.
by Compersionist on June 30th, 2008
Being patronized or made to feel worthless.
by Miss. Tandra on September 26th, 2007
hitting on other girls
orr
dishonest.
by mizuiislife on September 7th, 2007
guys who are unemployed and lazy bums who expect me to support them.
by MIA on August 30th, 2007
Physical abuse. I will never tolerate any man hitting me or any of my daughters.
by Samantha McGee on August 30th, 2007
cheating.... why cheat when you can jus tell that person that you dont wanna be with them???
by unknown on July 5th, 2007
Cheating....Duh!!!
by unknown on July 4th, 2007
Lying.
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by Rickster is victorious on July 3rd, 2007
<nods> I agree.
by Jodie44 on July 3rd, 2007
100% agree!
by L Anon has a Blank spot in her heart on August 4th, 2007
Yes. +
by Mrs.Dufresne on August 4th, 2007
Thanks hun...yes... and add psychological abuse
by Rickster is victorious on August 4th, 2007
I considered emotional to be psychological. Sort of lumped them together.
by Zombies on August 4th, 2007
Emotions can be hurt badly, overtly or otherwise... mind games can be slow and painful..there is a diference
by Rickster is victorious on August 4th, 2007
Yes, but they all toy with your emotions. No sense in arguing about it, it's just my answer.
by Zombies on August 4th, 2007
I agree with Zombies. I would add disrespect of which all of those behaviors are based.
by UneFille on January 18th, 2008
I agree with Zombies as well. Those are the four things that I WILL NOT tolerate in a relationship. Any and all are grounds for immediate breakup.
by Agoldie0 on May 10th, 2008
Sounds like you pretty much got it covered guys!
by Ann on a Moose on December 9th, 2008
I TOTALLY AGREE!
1000%
by mzamudio519 on December 29th, 2008
I also agree.
by ryukasnov on December 31st, 2008
That's bout rite i'd say.
by dreadyroots on January 3rd, 2009
I was going to answer this question..but you already nailed it..sooo DITTO
by Curious on January 9th, 2009
very, very, VERY well said!!!
thank you for reading my mind! lol
by jadedheart on January 16th, 2009
Disrespect
Rudeness
Cheaters
Then again, being rude or cheating is disrespectful so...
by Morgingin on March 7th, 2009
I agree with you Zombies....can't have ANY of that!
by alwayscurious on April 9th, 2009
ONE THING..!! Ya gotta be kidding..!!
Okay well I guess the basics then.. someone that isn't clean.!
Sheesh, I got a list.!
by Lauralaw on April 12th, 2009
Zombies, ya nailed em all.
by schmee2369 on April 25th, 2009
I totally agree
by racheleastman on May 13th, 2009
agreed on these 4... and the Zombies :)
by Lamona on July 28th, 2009
great minds think alike!
by racheleastman on July 28th, 2009
I so so agree and, of these, lies are the worst.
by greensceptic on August 30th, 2009
I can't stand my s/o lying to me!! That is why I ended my last relationship. He continuously lied to me!! BIG NO-NO!!!
by racheleastman on August 30th, 2009
You go girls! I agree
by Vaporeongirl on September 15th, 2009
Lying does suck....cuz you always know when they lie and catch them in lies but they still lie and deny it. Its like there is no truth...
and the "truth is all the matters"
by schmee2369 on September 15th, 2009
I would never be with someone who lies. Been there, done that, bought the t-short and wore it out.
by Zombies on September 15th, 2009
It was always about the same thing... He promised me he would quit drinking *I know wishful thinking*.. Told me he would... NOPE never happened. One time he and I were talking on the phone. He was slurring his words soo bad that I could tell he had been drinking!!! told me that he was "tired"!! Bullsh*t!! Lying SOB had been drinking!! After about the 5th or 6th time, I finally called off the relationship!! DUMBASS!!
by racheleastman on September 15th, 2009
Spot on Zombies...lies is # 1 for me !!!= +5
by Pistachio on September 27th, 2009