My boyfriend and i are about to have a 2 month anniversary tomorrow! But he tells me that he has things to do.. I believe him but i don't know what to do.. should i still celebrate it or not... HELP!
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hmm how old are u anyways? and Maybe you should ask him whats wrong and if he even WANTS to celebrate it...and you know its only 2 months are u sure its that important? i mean it may be to u but is it to him?
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chill. It has only been two months. Guys don't think like that. To a guy, it's like telling them tomorrow is Friday. They know that alredy and it is not that important. Don't mix the importance of the anniversary up with the value and importance you have in his life. The two are separate. Celebrate it if you want, just don't pull a "depressed girl gets drunk and calls her boyfriend at 2 AM" thing. He will run.
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i wouldn't really worry about it. just enjoy spending time together when you can. i don't think most couple's celebrate anniversaries on a monthly basis simply because that would be a little much. if you make it to six months, then celebrate then. for the most part, i think people "celebrate" each year together.
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While I am sure you mean well, I think I speak for a lot of men when i say that celebrating a 2 MONTH anniversary is kind of silly. Anniversaries are best left at the yearly interval, though early on in a relationship 3 and 6 months are fine. The reason is fairly simple. If you celebrate EVERY little 'milestone' it cheapens the reason you are celebrating. Your entire relationship should be a small, ongoing celebration in and of itself. I say wait a month.
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Though two months is a start, it is not quite celebration time. This is the kind of thing that sends guys running in the opposite direction. If you'd like to have him around to celebrate one year, then don't mention this kind of thing again until then. Celebrate in private or with your girlfriends, but don't make a big deal out of every little thing. Good luck.
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Don't worry about it and don't go out and celebrate alone. Just take your time and don't rush stuff so much. If all you do is worry over little stuff like a two month you'll scare him off for sure. Now if this was a one year then you can get miffed.
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2 months isn't exactly a milestone anniversary... so celebrate if you want, maybe with something special or a treat for you or something, but don't get overworked if he doesn't want to celebrate after only two months. and gifts are pretty much unnecessary at this point, i think.
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i say celebrate it with him if you can, it does not hurt one bit to be hopeless romantic! im that way, go out to a nice dinner or something like a movie, and just have a relaxed night! good luck!
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What does it say if he's too busy to celebrate? Celebrating a r/ship anniversary by yourself seems sad and pointless too somehow??
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you have been together for two mnths its really short time, you don't know him very well, i think you should wait until you know him better, maybe he is not the guy you want to be with.
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Don't give so much importance to anniversary dates. Other dates are much more important.
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tonight is my one month anniversary. he had told me he wanted to go to the movies and like something else as well, and i had high hopes. he called me and took me out with his friends. i was pretty bummed. i guess us girls have more expectations and guys dont. its a natural thing.
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One month aniversaries are chick things that guys puzzle over. Don't think he doesn't care about you, but we're just not wired to obsess over stuff like this.
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You're gonna celebrate it by yourself??
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Go ahead celebrate by yourself and make sure your boyfriend knows about it. (psst, run man, run! Escape now!)
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Well I for one think that everything is special. Us girls are glad that we even made it this far. Couples now a days are breaking up within hours. I Know it's only two months and boys usually don't care. If you feel like doing something special for him, do it. It's just that boys usually don't care and you shouldn't expect anything back.
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Remember what ever you do don't be too full on about it, that might be why he is avoiding it! wait till six months or 1 yr to be like that. men spook easily, tell him your cool with that and catch up with some of your girls, If youve been with this guy for only two months you may have missed some girlfriend time. Show him that you can still have fun seperatly so he dosn't freak out!!
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celebrating it every year would make it more special to him
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If you wanna go for it. But since boys can't remember anything, just don't get hurt or anything when he doesn't remember. I told my boyfriend what's on the 11th, He said Wednesday.
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"2 month anniversary" doesn't even make sense. Anniversary usually relate to a yearly event. I think you should go about your day like you did the day before, it doesn't mean anything ha ha. If you celebrate every month you've got a lot of celebrating to do.
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Since when has 2 month anniversary meant anything??? Are we supposed to be celeberating each month? Why don't you try to celebrate a real benchmark like a year.
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Wait for a real landmark, 6 months and a year. Go out with friends, stay home read a book. Men arent wired to remember stuff like that. Hell, i dont even remember the day we actually met. So we just say march 15th (first date) for our anniversary. We dont celebrate our actual wedding day, doesnt count to us since it wasnt a actual wedding, just a courthouse.
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There is no such thing as a 'two month' anniversary. What would that be, the sext-annual or something? Give it a rest, already! Give him a kiss and tell him you look forward to being with him for 1 year. Good Lord, I've had a wart longer than two months.
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