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Telling him will probably offend him no matter how you do it. What you need to decide is whether it is worth it to offend him or not, and if your friendship would survive it.
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There are worse things than being desperate. Lonliness is one of them. Another question I've posed on Answerbag is Which is more destructive to a persons moral values. Loneliness or drug and alcohol addiction. Admittedly either one could lead to the other.
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Just tell him that since it's his first relationship he shouldn't get too attached because that's what people usually do and they don't relize that they're many other fish in the sea.
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tell him to try and find someone his own age, 14 yr. olds have a very different view in life then 18 recen being that an 18 yr. old is already an adult and has to work. On the contrary 14 yr olds still have time to experiment (take it which way you want) and arent thinking about the future. If you can put that in some way that is non-offensive to him, then your a miracle worker lol Your Welcome
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i don't think there is any "good" way to tell him. maybe the best thing to do... is not tell him. with such a large age gap, and such an apparently childish/annoying girl, he is bound to figure it out himself. besides, no one's first significant other is ever perfect. he needs to realize this for himself.
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Why is an 18 year old dating a 14 year old? 14 year olds, unless they are exceptionally mature (and I have known a few who are), are, by nature, immature compared to a late teenager. That is how it works. It is not their "job" to be mature yet. I would, firstly, explain to him the dangers of an 18 year old dating, and possibly having sex with, a 14 year old. That would be my main issue. If he is desperate, as you surmise, he is using HER. I would discuss this with him, were you me. I would sit him down and bring it up, calmly. If he takes offense at a calm friend to friend discussion, then it is his issue.
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Leave him alone,if you don't he'll resent you for your attitude/input toward them and you'll lose a friend.He'll be a better man in the long run if you let him govern his own life. Good or bad.
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You don't tell him. It isn't any of your business, nor is it your job to convince him of your beliefs. If you really are his friend, you will respect his decision(s).
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Just talk to him about not having sex because that could get him in big trouble the age of consent is different with each state but 16 is the youngest anyways. other then that I say leave it and let him learn on his own.
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If she is truly immature, he will soon realize this and end the relationship
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If she is truly immature, he will soon realize this and end the relationship
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He may also be in some legal difficulties if the relationship goes too far. He does know this, doesn't he?
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admitedly i have been in similar situations as i knew a 14yr old who went out with a 18 yr old, the 18yr old was attracted 2 people of that age group, which is wrong, if this is the situation then you have too step in
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