Most of the time, the guy is the one who usually says "I love you" just like in my case. My bf tells me he loves me whenever we talk. But there are other guys that do not say "I love you" most of the time but rather show their girlfriends how much they love them. If you truly see that your bf shows how much he loves you through actions, I don't think you need to worry. But let me just tell you, from what I know when two persons get together, they profess their feelings for each other, if this happened between the two of you, you can call yourselves a couple, but if not you better talk to him to assure if you two are a couple or in a relationship.Communication is very important in a relationship, and assuming won't be good.

Guys are different...you know that. it takes a lot of courage and certainty for a guy to i love you, especially if you are the one. i believe these three words are routinely used without meaning, just to get a roll in the hay with someone. don't say it, if you don't mean it. maybe he will come around.....give it more time. make him say it first and he'll be there forever. end

LOVE is not a feeling. Love is an action. Love is a choice. True Love is the action to choose unconditionally in the process of offering to another human being the qualities of: Affection, Care, Concern, Respect, Thoughtfulness, Forgiveness, Compassion, Trust, Joy and many other positive emotional expressions of value and worth toward ANY living being as being Loveable and valuable. When someone says, "I Love You" it is a symbolic gesture rather than a direct expression of "A" particular feeling. ie; When we greet strangers we often say, "How are you?" without actually meaning it specifically. His actions are the words.

Just because he doesn't say he loves you doesn't mean that he doesn't. Some people are just smart enought to wait to tell their partner that they love them until they're really sure. As a teenage boy, i have many friends who tell their boyfriend/girlfriends that they "love" them at the end of every phone conversation, instant message, etc. To me, this is stupid, and one of the first things i establish upon going into a relationship is that i'd like to wait to say "I love you" until i know that i actually mean it. Therefore, when a girl first tells me she loves me, i wait until i know i have the feeling as well until saying it back. Unlike many of the boys i know, who say "i love you" just to satisify their girlfriends, and vice versa, I'm careful using the word because i know how much it really means. If your boyfriend is like this and is waiting to say he loves you before he's 100% sure, i applaud his way of thinking.

i am having the same issue, my partner/friend..said he likes me A LOT., no love what so ever...also said he thought I was moving to fast we meet in Feb now Aug its been a long distance relationship now he has moved to the same country and all I asked was what I was to him EG: A friend/Girlfriend etc etc and he freaked out...I need to know as not only will I be investing time, Money for flights and everything else I wanted to know where I stood.Do you think that is fair?

Many guys act like this, myself included. Love is a word that is for the most part, bolted out of guys brains since we were old enough to talk. Don't pressure him, if he loves you he will say it in time.

not neccessarly. guys have a different way of telling u that they love u. Sometimes they show u betta than they can tell you. Be patient it's bound to come out of him when the time is right.

Some men can't get those words out. Does he treat you like he loves you? Does he laugh at your jokes? His actions speak louder than words.

Well he can love you and not even know it some guys are scared to say there true feelings... but if you really want to know just ask him but don't be (sad):( if he says (no) it does'nt mean that he won't get to that point to where he loves you....it just takes time to fall in love. Some people just fall in love faster then others....just tell him how you feel but just because he has not told you yet does not mean he does not love you :) ~GODBLESS AND GOODLUCK~

If you say to him, I love you, and, he doesn't say I love you back, I'm afraid he probably doesn't. Sorry. Just my opinion. But, maybe he just doesn't love you, YET.

Sorry to say, but if he loved you he would say it. Best to just leave it alone for now and see if he says in time. Remeber you're still young and love is way more complex then you're ready for anyways.

look, I have a boyfriend and it took him like a month to start saying I love u 2 me... some guys have problems saying it but thats not an issue... just give him time and let him adjust to it let him figure out if he is acually in love yet

He might just be nervous, have you said it to him? OR he might not believe in love, I think love is a lot like a religion, there are so many opinions of what love is, that how do you really know? A lot of people say that you just know, but whaty if you think you know, and thenyou tell the other person, tehn you decide, maybe you're not. When telling someone you love then, if you're actually serious, you have to make sure you definately mean it, or you might end up having to say it after that anyway, so you have to be 100% sure, and how do you know? I'm not sure if this even makes sense, but all I mean is, he might love you and not be sure of it himself, he really likes you anyway, so don't worry!

If a guy truly loves you, he will go out of his way and show you. He will make plans to try and see you everyday if not then he will call you everyday just to say i miss you! I am in the same boat except that I am lucky enough to have all guy friends and I know how to read and play those games as guys do. This guy I have been seeing for 3 months told me last month that he thinks he is falling in love with me. I looked at him, smiled and then took my turn to play pool. He is in the army in croatia and we both live here and near each other. so a lot of times he is gone for 5-10 days then as soon as he gets back he calls me to see me. usually when he is gone that long i wont call him or text him just so i can see if he truly misses me and wants to see me the second he gets back. so far everytime he is the first one to call me and text me. last night he left again for 8 days and right away this morning at 5 am i got the phone call and he told me that he misses me. its hard for 2 people to say that love each other esp if they both feel the same way and act the same way. that means that they are both scared and dont want to get hurt. i think thats why i didnt tell him yet b-c i want to make sure that i truly am in love with him. like they say patience is a virtue and there is no reason to rush into anything or say anything until you are both ready and believe me when you are both ready not only will you know it, but you will both feel it. one way to tell if the guy is in love with you is this, you are sitting next to each other and he for no reason just looks at you and looks into your eyes for a min and not saying a word. pay attention to that next time.

I suspect your bf is being honest about his feelings. I think if he feels love for you he would have said so. that doesn't mean he won't get there but he's not there yet. I can almost hear the 'but' after he expresses his feelings.