A lot of girls seem to spit (from what I've read). I prefer to swallow, but I've only been with the one guy and I don't think I would with just anyone. It's a matter of what you feel comfortable with.

neither is 'wrong,' its really what your comfortable with. I'd say spit is more common, but swallow is the general male preference. But heck - I'm not the one doing the swallowing :p Also, If theres a chance he could have an STD you might consider having him wear a condom, effectively eliminating your dilemma. Good luck

ladies never spit ;)..:)

I think it depends on the mood. Swallowing might be better if she is really into it. From my experience swallow

My gf and I refer to this as "Cum Management" (formerly known as "Fun with Cum") From a male's perspective swallowing is much sexier. Still better ask him to tell you when he's about to come, back off when he starts and watch him come. Then either clean his rod with your tongue or wipe it with you index finger then lick it like it was cake frosting. He'll go crazy. If you can't handle the taste descretely spit.

You should do what you are most comfortable with doing! ALWAYS...and in all things. Some guys are extremely bitter tasting, or thicker in consistency and so one prefers to spit it into a tissue that you should have at the ready... With this in mind...you don't have to take it into your mouth AT ALL, if your guy happens to be one of the really foul tasting ones. Just have several tissues ready and when he indicates he's going to go...slip the tissues in place instead of your mouth...(keep at least one hand on him still so that there is less interruption to the "moment." Some guys taste fine, not unpleasant at all, and some actually taste slightly sweet. A lot of this has to do with their diet. I've heard that drinking Pineapple juice will help sweeten the taste, but I don't know if it really works or not. Please be AWARE of the safety issues regarding this form of love-making. If you swallow or if you have any small cuts, or open sores (like maybe you accidentally bit the inside of your mouth, it happens), then getting his sperm in your mouth opens you up to catching any sort of STD that he may have. (Sexually Transmitted Disease) You can still have a great time Sexually, but you need to be able to talk HONESTLY with each other about your past. If either of you have been sexually active you need to be tested on a regular basis, especially if having unprotected (condom) sex. If he has been sexually active before...with other people...unless he has also gotten tested, he may not KNOW he has caught something...I know this isn't sexy...but unfortunately it is something we all have to keep in mind in order to live, love and be safe. List of STD's "STDs are divided into several groups according to their pathogenic causes: BACTERIAL: # Chancroid (Haemophillius ducreyi); # Chlamydia infection (Chlamydia trachomatis); # Donovanosis (Granuloma inguinale or Calymmatobacterium granulomatis); # Gonorrhea (Neisseria gonorrhoeae); # Lymphogranuloma venereum (LGV) (Clamydia trachomatis serotypes L1, L2, L3) # Non gonococcal urethritis (NGU) (Ureaplasma urealyticum or Mycoplasma hominis); # Syphilis (Treponema pallidum); etc. # VIRAL: # Cytomegalovirus; # Hepatitis B; # Herpes /HSV (Herpes simplex virus); # Human Immunodeficiency Virus (HIV/AIDS); # Human Papilloma Virus (HPV); # Molluscum (MC); # Severe Acute Respiratory Syndrome (SARS); etc. # PARASITES: # Pubic Lice or, more popular, "crabs" (Phthirius pubis); # Scabies (Sarcoptes scabiei); etc. FUNGAL: # Candidiasis (thrush) (Candida albicans) can be sexually transmitted but not strictly an STD; PROTOZOAL: # Trichomoniasis (Trichomonas vaginalis) How can I tell if I am infected with an STD? # Most of the symptoms of STDs can be found either on the genitals or in and around the mouth. Some of the most common STD symptoms are: # Itching around the vagina and/or discharge from the vagina for women; # Discharge from the penis for men; # Pain during sex, when urinating and/or in the pelvic area; # Sore throats in people who have oral sex; # Pain in the anus for people who have anal sex; # Chancre sores (painless red sores) on the genital area, anus, tongue and/or throat; # A scaly rash on the palms of your hands and the soles of your feet; # Dark urine, loose, light-coloured stools, and yellow eyes and skin; # Small blisters that turn into scabs on the genital area; # Swollen glands, fever and body aches; # Unusual infections, unexplained fatigue, night sweats and weight loss; # Soft, flesh-coloured warts around the genital area. Since symptoms can vary from one person to another, the best way to know for sure whether you are infected or not with an STD is to have a medical examination. # Can STD infection be prevented? It is not so difficult to prevent becoming infected with an STD. The risk of getting one can be reduced by using condoms during vaginal and anal sex. It has been scientifically proven that condoms help prevent HIV and other major STDs. Nevertheless STDs like herpes, pubic lice and wart virus can be spread by simple skin to skin contact. In order to be effective the condom MUST be used every time you have sex!!!" http://listofstds.com/

yes I do - well I feel bad not doing it .. for the man like..I mean it does not taste the best but makes the guy feels nice

I see it like this....it's like if you have a pinata (A decorated container filled with candy and toys suspended from a height, intended to be broken by blindfolded children with sticks, and used as part of Christmas and birthday celebrations in certain Latin-American countries or at children's parties.) You hit it and hit it and hit it...finally, it bursts open and you just leave all the toys and candies on the ground. What's the point of having a pinata??? I love being able to swallow my bf's cum while looking right into his eyes....mmmmm.

If you let a guy cum in your mouth, what is the difference if you spit or swallow? It has already hit your taste buds? If you don't like the taste, don't let him cum in your mouth. If you don't mind, then just swallow. Why take this middle ground?

If you really want to make it the best for him, swallow. It's "finishing the job," and it takes away any concern he would have about where he spews. If you're not comfortable with chugging the chum, then at least make the delivery erotic, and let him erupt some place that's as much of a turn-on, such as across your face, on your breasts, etc. Don't be afraid to experiment. Try different things and see what works out best for both of you.

It's best to swallow. Guys like it, and it gives you an honest taste of each guy. --o, and it's only 7-10 calories, depending on the load.

Depends really, on each girls preference..... and I've been told, that taste improves with more frequent ejaculation

Ive had a few nice ladies in my time and Ive never had one swallow my juice. I personally dont blame then.

I swallow every drop, every time. I love the feeling of a cock squirting it in my mouth (or several of them).

I love to suck dick! It is my most fav. thing to do to a man! ;-O, Yes I swallow!

i swallow every time...spitting makes no sense! why would you have oral sex with him if you're not going to swallow? it really turns me when a man holds my head and pumps his cock inside my mouth...then when he cums, i LOVE feeling his cum shoot down my throat. it's SO satisfying...that's the reason i love to give head!!

Before I was married, I used to spit, but for my man, I swallow. Depends on your circumstances. Girl, if you want to spit, go ahead, and if you want to swallow, enjoy!

All the women I have been with have swallowed except for my ex. I'm told I taste good, so that may explain why I get swallowed and some women don't want to swallow. My GF says my precum tastes similiar and that she can gauge how a guys cum will taste before they cum and she will not swallow or allow to cum in her mouth if they don't taste OK. (Ironically, she wouldn't swallow her ex because he tasted bad).

Swallow. Spitters are quitters.

I've said it before; I'll say it again. It's like having a pinata. You hit it and hit it and hit it, trying to break it open in order to get the candies and the toys. But once you break it open, you leave the candies and toys on the floor. What's the point of having a pinata? Definitely swallow.

It is best to ask your partner's preferences. As for me I like it both meaning that I enjoy cumming in the mouth and seeing it drools and I would love to see girls licking it clean. But it all depends on the girl herself, unless she love to do that kind of thing, then go ahead. If not, follow your instint, if you like to eat the cum, just eat it.

Try both, choose one, that you like.

From a broad perspective, there is no "supposed to". You and your partner should do as you see fit. From a popular perspective, swallowing is much more acceptable. To "spit" is a symbol of rejection, which is why nobody appreciates being "spat upon". That is counterproductive to intimacy in general and to oral sex in particular.

I used to hate the taste and spit it out but over the last few years I have gotten used to it and just swallow... after a while you get used to the taste... my husband drinks alot of water and so his has a pretty neutral taste to it.

Spitting is rude!!!!! Every blow job is a chance to worship his cock...suck it and lick it like it's the most incredibly delicious thing you've ever tasted and when he gives you the gift of his jizz, desperately swallow every drop, cleaning every nook and cranny with your tongue afterwards.

Too many of them seem to spit unless you don't give them a choice in the matter... In all sriousness, it's up to you. If he's clean and you want to, go for it, you might like it. If you don't like the taste, spit, or just don't let him nut IN your mouth, let him nut on your face. Makes you seem dirtier when he does that, and that turns guys on hehe.