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  • If something is going on that makes you ask this question, then perhaps he is. If he's gainfully employed, but conveniently forgets his wallet whenever you go out to dinner; or if he is constantly borrowing money that is rarely or never paid back, then you may have a problem. If you feel that he is, write down everything that makes you think he's taking advantage of you. Then sit down with him and talk to him about it. Don't make it accusatory, don't blame or become angry. Stay calm and discuss it. If there isn't clear resolution with this discussion, you have to ask yourself, "Am I willing to pay for what I get out of this relationship?" If you answer yes, then enjoy. If you answer no, then perhaps it's time to move on. Good luck.
  • Well if you haven't known him too long & he's doing things you feel may be ethically or morally wrong, I'd say open your eyes. That's all it takes. Or was the point in the question a financial one? I see the response given by jtolb65 is mostly aimed at finances .. & I commend the input on that aspect .. well done.

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