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  • Sort of. Same thing happened to me sorta...and I was around the same age. I like men always have...but at the same time...the thought of being with a man scares me....
  • My ex bf is now gay and says he always just tried to be with women to hide it from himself. i knew he liked guys when we were going out (said he was bi) so it doesn't bother me that we broke up and he came out a little bit later. I think you just have to go with what you feel. Don't try to fight either attraction or stifle it. But also, don't shy away from the gender that abused you, because that's not the same thing as being attracted to the other one. If you like someone, you like someone. I'd just not worry about what gender they turn out to be.
  • You need to talk to a therapist- this is not something anonymous people on a web page can help you with. You have to really talk to someone qualified to help you deal with issues related to sexual abuse. You have to reach the point where that event is no longer a part of your identity, and no longer influencing your relationships.
  • I was sexually abused by my mother from the age of six until I was thirteen and left home for good. I am man who has never been back with a women. I have always been with a man. I do not blame the abuser but rather have learned to understand myself and my physical and emotional needs. I hope this helps as everyone is different.

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