by RosieGHM Jetpacker on June 7th, 2007

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When I'm hurt I feel bad momentarily then move on. However, when someone I love gets hurt I never forget and I never forgive. Can you forgive those who hurt your loved ones?

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  • by Babycakes on June 7th, 2007

    Babycakes

    That is true for me Rosie..someone did something to my sister over 30 yrs ago and even though the same thing was done to me,my hurt for her is stronger and my hate for him just grows and grows. Good Question and good to see you.

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  • by Penny The Wise on June 7th, 2007

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    No, not really. As for me, I don't really care. You f**k with my family though, and you're in for some fun... I'm the only one (on the surface) who can NOT forgive my brother for raping my sister. It seems that she even may have forgiven him, even thoughs he has never actually come out and said so. I never will forgive him. Ever.

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  • by American idle on June 7th, 2007

    American idle

    No. I am very thick skinned, I don't care what anybody says or thinks if me. But don't mess with my family.

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  • by jenny_gurlie1984 on June 7th, 2007

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    Your like me If you do something to me I can get over it, you mess with someone I love I will hunt you down... I have learned though that stepping back from the situation and looking at both sides because you love the person you autoatically side with them, how I learned was siding with someone that was in the complete wrong and learning if they need me they'll ask otherwise I mind my own now..

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  • by Anonymous on October 11th, 2008

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    Yes I do beleive we should forgive those that hurt the ones we love and us, we may never have to forget and if we were in the same predicament would we do the same to them?? It is usually harder for the person to forgive themselves for the horible things that we do to each other. I know not everyone has this view but someone has toand hopefuly this advice may help someone oneday to move past the hurt to a better and more poistive place that living in the hurt and pain.

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