What can I do to make my partner cum?

Sexual satisfaction is about 90% mental and 10% physical. The best way to make you partner cum is to ask him/her what is it he/she fantisizes about the most? Let your partner know that you're serious and really want to make them feel good. They might be afraid to tell you the truth; fearing that their sexual fantasy would be a turn-off for you and that they might lose your affection if you know. Usually it is something rather simple but it might be somewhat strange to you. Let your partner know that even if you won't personally oblige them that it's OK.. You'll still have as much affaction for them as always. Most likely it will be something that you'll both end up enjoying and that's the best way to get your partner to cum. Never be afraid to ask what they most like or desire sexually. You and your partner will be greatful!

Be very attentive to thier likes and dislikes, dont over concentrate on one thing, IE when giving head dont just concetrate on the penis, let your hands roam around yeah even in the back most men love to have the old brown eye touched a little while getting head. The best thing to do for either partner is just ask, hey does this feel good, or hey what does this do when I do this. Most times if your doing something right you wont even have to ask you can tell, from body movements to lots of load moaning. If your trying to make a female cum, well same rules apply, pay attention use your fingers use you entire mouth lick the front lick the back pinch the nipples, sooner or later she will cum.

You never make love TO that person. You make love WITH that person. For the sake of the younger folks who read these answers, I won't get very graphic. I'm sure you can use your imagination.

I AM A VERY fortunate man. I had the wonderful experience of seeing my parents, both sets of grandparents and all my aunts and uncles behave as though they were constantly on their honeymoons with their spouses.
They would hold hands, cuddle, hug, kiss, whisper things to each other, say, "I love you, _____!" and carry-on like many young people, who are in love, do in public.
They would smile at each other and tell each other
how beautiful, wonderful and thoughtful she was and
how thoughtful, wonderful and handsome he was!
WOW! What a great set of romance role models!

No, I never watched as they were making love in the most intimate way, but I DID see and learn from their examples and inter-actions with their spouses! As far as I know, no one ever cheated on the other.

That being said, one day my mother's father got in the car with me. I was driving him to the track. He "LOVED those ponies"! He was well-aware of the relationship I had with the lady I was dating and who would one day be my bride.

He said words similar to these:
I know your father told you what to do, but did he ever tell you how to do it?
I answered, "No".

He went on to say, "I'm going to tell you some things I don't think you'll learn from any one else. When you have sex, make love or whatever you want to call it, you don't behave like most other men. Most men are just interested in one thing and one thing only - satisfying their own selfish selves.

That's NOT the way to do it. You have to make absolutely certain she is satisfied. No matter how long it takes or what you have to do, you have to do whatever it takes to make sure she does what she likes to do best. You HAVE TO satisfy her first.

Your brain is the most important sex organ. Your brain controls what happens downstairs. When you aren't sure about what to do or how to do it, ask her what she wants you to do. She'll tell you or she'll show you. When you're making love, you think of other things - not what's going on at that particular moment with that particular lady. When you think about what you're actually doing, I guarantee you'll never satisfy the lady in your life.

He went on to explain about holding hands, hugging, kissing, caressing and taking things one step at a time. He described a lot of things I heard of but wasn't sure about.

During that ride, one of the last things he said was:
When you are absolutely sure she is satisfied, then you can do what you know is best for you - but not one minute before.

That's what I was told.

Thank you, Gran'pop. I love you. I miss you!

Some afterthoughts: You could also buy a book, on-line, called "Kama Sutra."

You could also go on-line and make the investment in some "adult sex toys" to stimulate and arouse. There are LOTS of sites.

Thanks for asking your Q! I enjoyed answering it!

VTY,
Ron Berue
Yes, that is my real last name!

Sources: My wonderful family!

"THE University of Hard Knocks"
also known as ("a/k/a") "life's valuable lessons"