Why do men who are not that attractive and cheesy hit on decent looking women then get up set when their corny lines don't work and call her a "sl*t", "B*tch", etc etc?
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Nellie Wise Gamgee
ANSWERS: 30
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I don't think those responses are limited to "unattractive" guys, but I'd think mostly because that way they leave insulting the girl, instead of leaving rejected.
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Because they can't handle the rejection, and it makes them feel better to demean the woman in question.
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Male pride. If they're as unattractive and cheesy as you say, they're probably sick and tired of rejection.
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1. An unattractive man can do very little to make himself more attractive... and unfortunately for him cheesy pickup lines only make it worse. 2. They deserve happiness just as much as attractive guys. 3. It also depends on how the 'cheesy' lines are responded to... if you roll your eyes and say "As If..." then yeah, that's a bit b**chy... but not enough to be assessed as a sl*t. 4. If they aren't drunk and beligirant, why not look past the cheesy line and try and get to know his personality... unless that's not what you are looking for, in which sense you are being superficial and just looking for a 'hottie'. 5. There are very very few times where it is appropriate or necessary to refer to anybody with those particular vulger names.
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Maybe it's the way some decent looking women reject the not so attractive men... If feelings are hurt then it's probably done in retaliation.
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Cause they are horny and not in the right state of mind at that moment. I'm pretty sure that negative points come from not understanding the answer. I might say that saving girls/women from horny unatractive drunk guys is my hobby. Numerous times I had to pretend to be a boyfriend or a brother to them, but sometimes even that didnt help. People just see their desire and think that with constant pressure they will get what they want !?!
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Beauty is in the eye of the beholder and what some women may find unattractive and cheesy looking, may not seem that way to another. Looks are subjective in that respect. Then, when the decent looking woman who can't see beyond the guys face to his soul, rejects him, he is hurt and covers his hurt and bandages his damaged ego and pride by calling her names.
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Have you heard the "Sour Grapes" fable?: http://www.bartleby.com/17/1/31.html
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SOME guys like to think they are god's gift to women, no matter how may times it looks like they've been trown down the ugly tree and smacked each branch. It's very annoying. Especially because they are bitter that girls don't go for them, they call every woman and slut or a bitch because they have no respect and put the blame on other people. I wouldn't date a guy who would call someone a bitch just because they wouldn't go out with them. That's so disresepctful. I think people just want someone else to blame for their problems. Instead of looking at the fact that they are disrespectful and not a good mate, they would rather call the female names to place blame elsewhere. It's really, really sad.
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they should come talk to me.. i will teach them how to do it properly. All it takes is a little creativity and a level of uniqueness in order to pick up a woman.. good news guys.. looks are not that important - although they do help. Want to learn more?? Want to pick up that woman? put the lines away... either that or know that she is waiting to reject you as soon as u finish your line. Its not hard to pick up a woman.. you just have to learn the techniques, which much like everything else, takes practice. Remember one thing though.. no woman EVER deserves to be called a slut. If you are going to call a woman that, or any of the above mentioned words then stop, turn to yourself, and quitly whisper to yourself "i am a moron and don't understand women" skillz17 at the hotplace if u wanna e-mail me for more info
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Sounds like a power struggle to me. They don't stop to realize they're working on a dead horse. When I say "Dead Horse" I mean them, not the ladies. If a "REAL" man has a wife or girlfriend and just loves her with every beat of his heart, he wouldn't dare call her those names. It's the ultimate in disrespect, dishonor and disloyalty.
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It's their small minds at work. Peaceful negotiations failed for "reasons unknown" so a more aggressive stance is taken. When that method also fails they will be forced to think harder. The 'slut', 'bitch' thing is just wishful hoping aloud. Some blokes have this funny idea that all they have to do is be nice and women will love them. Then they get all upset when a nice looking woman appears to throw herself at some loud, rude, over-confident, obnoxious bloke who treats her like shit. That's where they get the pathetic idea that "the woman must be easy but she doesn't want me because 'it is not fair'". (Sometimes they think that way anyway, even without her throwing herself at anyone). Guys who are like this need a serious talking to, preferably by an older bloke who can put it in a language that they can understand. They are victims of their hormones with no-one to re-direct them. I suppose a sarcastic, "Oh that's real seductive" might make them think, or a "You don't own me, I'll do what I like." Sorry I can't be more helpful.
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cant take rejection..
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because they are ugly they rely on confidence and ego to make them attractive, so when women reject them youve just taking away the only asset they had :)
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I go more on personality than looks..but when a guy struts around acting like he is all suave and studly expecting that you will be as impressed with him as he obviously is with himself, it is a complete turn off (even if he IS attractive). The ones who do the name calling because you are not interested are only trying to reinflate their ego and convince themselves that it is YOU not them.
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It's just because he didn't get what he wanted...
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Heck, I've rejected good looking men and got the same reaction. It's not just the unattractive ones, it has nothing to do with their looks but their attitude.
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Well I hate to answer a question with another question but can someone please explain to me the concept of a "cheesy pick-up line"?? Yes, I am one of the unattractive guys. All I did is tell the woman she is beautiful so what in the hell more do you want from me???? I don't know what else to say anymore!!!! A guy can't compliment a woman without being accused of being "cheesy" or not meaning it or just trying to get a good lay. So if everything is just a pick-up line to you women then I don't know what else to try except for beer. Too bad it only makes me handsome for one night.......
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Because they are losers!
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because, there is alot of really attractive women that are dating unattractive men, that artificially boost the confidence of unattractive men in thinking they can also get an attractive women. also, most men think that if they are not attractive. they can still get the girl by being funny, intelligent blah blah blah. besides. beauty is in the eye of the beholder. just because you think the guy is unattractive. doesn't mean the girl sitting next to you will think that.
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because there self-esteem level is very low!
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I see you've met some dirtbags.
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Because they took a shot and they want to try to degrade you beause you weren't into their loserness.....defense mechanism..and they want to look big in front of their other dorky friends...give it to em it's all their gonna get. They will talk for hours how they shot the hot chick down , and propably make a dorky game about it.
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most men ugly or otherwise...all have corny lines. thus said...if men , ugly or otherwise are calling you names, after a brief meeting, then .. youre probably being ....UGLY...nuff sed ......................................... there are nice ways to say ...im not interested
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Why oh why do men use cheesy chat up lines. They have never worked with me (even if the guy is attractive they are just a turn off). Just come over and ask if she would like a drink :) Simple.
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Cos there are many sad, crazy little men out there with a chip the size of the grand canyon on their shoulder....
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They really think that they will get that girl and when she doesn't respond to their huge egos they can't stand them so the call them filty names..
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Dear Nellie, I am so sad you have met cretins like the ones you describe, I think this comes about because parents are very lax in the way they bring there kids up, Manners and Politeness have gone out the window, the strong Dad has gone missing. However and I stress this is a shocking view, but in general the ordinary male is under much pressure to perform in all sorts of ways and the weakest of them I'm sorry to say are bad tempered, rude and not very nice to know. As we say in The UK "Keep Your Chin Up" Crouton.
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I've only ever seen this happen in cheap movies.
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Using those words after being told "no" is the equivalent of a baby having a temper tantrum. In other words, these men that you are describing, have the same narcissistic personality of a 4 year old child.
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