Not if you do it right. Coming from my experiece with my wife using a dildo on me and me in my wife its all about patience and position. Porn stars can do it instantly because they get there sphinkter streched out before the shoot with a dildo. The rest of the world has to use lube and work it in. if the muscle isn't relaxed you can really stretch pull and rip the anus. Start small with a finger to stretch then move on to the good stuff.

If your not careful it can. Be aware of lube and positioning. If it is causing you a lot of pain STOP! You do not want to do any damage. Until you have become more aware of the sensations of anal sex, do not use an 'anal lube' they are ment to desensitize the area and you want to feel if something is going wrong!

Not if you are the guy

are you talking about pitching or catching?

at first it does, but the girl (or guy i guess) has to learn to relax there muscles and after awhile (at least with my experiences) the girl will really start to enjoy it, you kinda have to pop an anal cherry you could say

Not if you are doing it right. Read this post. It tells you what you need to know: http://mflife.wordpress.com/2006/10/12/anal-sex-101/

If she wants it, let her ask you, never ever ask her. As far as you are concerned for now, yes, it always does.

It doesn't have to. Read this post. It tells you what you need to know: http://mflife.wordpress.com/2006/10/12/anal-sex-101/

Not if done correctly, and slowly (at least at first), with proper lubrication.

depends on if you are in the mood for some Bowchicabowwow

Not if you are the one with the penis.

YES. hurts like a bitch. Never try it.. or use alot of exrta lube if u decied to do it

sounds like a pain in the arse 2 me

Only if she slaps you for sticking it in too quick

My girlfriend says it hurts and feels good. But one time i was doing it with her and she screamed like a monkey and then slapped me. We no longer have anal sex anymore because of that. She said it hurt too much. Gosh how i miss my penis in her butt. =[

http://reardoorwatch.com/painless.html Anal sex can be achieved painlessly simply with the initial penetration done while both partners are lying on their sides. A few slow strokes will bring enough relaxation so any position can then be assumed.

For the female.

without lube yes

aslong as they know what their doing and the woman can relax it dusnt hurt and u dont need to ask i hate it when a man asks if he can do something just do it! lol and if ur unsure use ur finger or ur tongue the first time then if she dusnt want to shell say before u next have sex

Oh don't be silly....

My bf doesn't seem to mind.

Don't try to dive into it before you're whole body is relaxed. I mean your WHOLE body. You don't want to be tightening any muscles because that will hurt you and your partner. Just be on your knees (as that's the best position for easy penetration) lay your head down and close your eyes and instruct your partner to GO SLOW. :]

Once you learn each other's bodies and relax and use proper lubrication, it can be a great experience. Initially, it may hurt, so you need to go very slow and respond to one another's body language and instructions.

It can if you never done it before, just like any other sex position. You also might want to know how to do it properly as well. -Jessica Edgell soon to be Zeidler.

This Vid Should help.

It can.. but try these methods.

Not if you do it right. You have to take your time and make sure he does. Use lube too!

As muh as vaginal or oral sex.... Common sense and a good lube will guarantee pleasure instead of pain when practicing anal sex. Give her enough time to ease the sphincter, or better yet, help your partner ease the anus by touching, "rimming" until is confortable to insert one or two fingers, also use plenty lubricant.

No! Not one single bit! I have never met a single person I have talked it over with who has said it does! I never speak to women

out of all my friends who have done it,they said it hurts really bad and that they would never do it ever again

So far the only ones that said it did where the ones that never really tried to do it. I think it was more of a mental thing though. that area of our body is made to stretch. Just make sure its does it slowly and it won't hurt. Alot of girls are so freaked about doing it they clinch and pretty much fight anything going it. That will hurt.

It can if you do not know what you are doing. My first time hurt but then I got some advice from a girl that had way more experience. She told me this: 1) Clean yourself... Girls this means an enema... Turn it into a fun game and have the guy give it to you. It's embarrassing the first time but then it gets fun after you get over your fears. 2) Lubricate. Have him lube you with his finger. Anal sex is one of the few times when the girl can be totally receptive and lay there and let the guy do all the work. He starts with a finger, then two and slowly works up to putting a rather large dildo up in you. Lots of lube. 3) Finally you are ready. He needs to push in slow. Unfortunately girls there is air in you, when he pushes it will usually come put and it sounds bad. Just laugh, you know you didn't fart on him for real. Anal sex should take well over an hour with the first 45 minutes or so spend on him prepping you with fingers, toys etc. Only you can decide if you want him to ejaculate in you. I don't mind it, but some girls hate the feeling of it when it comes out. Before you rule it out, do it right, see if you like it. If you don't, do go back again. If you do (like me) then you open a whole new area to explore. I've found most guys almost tremble with excitement when they learn that I'm open to them going up me anally. They simply cannot wait. Not sure why but guys tend to love doing that to girls!

Only if done wrong.

It can if your not smart about...really don't rush things, take it slow, and for beginners remember to breath and just try to relax!

It doesn't hurt. My boyfriend and I did it for the first time the other day. He lubed up his dick and my anal and slammed in me....OMG it felt so good. I can't wait to do it again.

It's something that can hurt a lot if you aren't prepared for it (well-lubed, and stretched out first with foreplay.) If you read up on the subject first and try it with a mature, caring partner, it can be heaven on earth.

well when i was doing this 3 year old it was rather tight

depends how big the cock is

It hurts like hell! I just dont understand my boyfriends fixation with my ass. I love it in my pussy from behind, and he knows it. He seems to take advantage of that. He gets me to orgasm, then BAM he starts ramming my asshole all of the sudden taking me from extacy to hell on earth in a splitt second. I scream bloody murder everytime, but he just seems to get off on it. He gets his load off, and leaves me crumpled and crying on the bed/floor. Then he tells me I put on too much about it.

Bend over and lets find out

Fact from fiction, truth from diction, it can if proper training is not done 1st. Many people see some gal getting her booty packed in movies or Internet porn and think she just started it that day or last week. To really be able to have sex back door style and not have her feel pain you need to start preparing at least 10 weeks or more ahead of time. 1st with your finger, then a slender butt plug, then an anal probe. Then with an expandable butt plug. At each stage you go slow with tons of lube. Only when she can take all of that and still relax then she is ready and it won't hurt. Until she can learn to totally relax there is the risk she will tense up and cause herself some discomfort.

Fact from fiction, truth from diction, it can if proper training is not done 1st. Many people see some gal getting her booty packed in movies or Internet porn and think she just started it that day or last week. To really be able to have sex back door style and not have her feel pain you need to start preparing at least 10 weeks or more ahead of time. 1st with your finger, then a slender butt plug, then an anal probe. Then with an expandable butt plug. At each stage you go slow with tons of lube. Only when she can take all of that and still relax then she is ready and it won't hurt. Until she can learn to totally relax there is the risk she will tense up and cause herself some discomfort.

yes, to a girl it wud be painful

yes it's well bad nice it hurts in a nice way

Initial entrance is very important. The receiver should be relaxed, ready and control the movement of the penis. It will eventually hurt a little, but not too much if done properly.

Only for the one taking it

I am extremely interested in learning about this since it has always been something I fantisize about. I experienced just enough to know that a minute later I could not, much as I wanted to, continue. It's not so much the entering, I mean that hurt too, but the exiting and re-entry was a b***h. I figured I would have to be high (I don't do drugs) or drunk (which I seriously considered) not to feel the pain. For me after it was said and done, it felt like my butthole was opening and closing; felt weird/freaky; like nothing I could put my finger on. Anyway, as informative as the answers are to the question; I am laughing my *** off cause some of the answers, well the opinions to the answers, are hilarious. :-)

it's hurt if you are are not ready.. try with fingersa nd lots of lub. ask your partner to do it step by step not into rushing it

It can especially when couples are new... In fact that is one of the primary reasons girls give up on it is the first time they tried it, it hurt bad enough they said, never again. The other reasons are usually embarrassment related. I had a g/f that decided to try it and she followed all my suggestions and it went ok but then she passed some gas by accident and was so embarrassed she vowed never to try it again. The guy wasn't even bothered but it bothered her enough that she refused. I feel bad for her because she said it did feel very interesting. Anal sex pleasure is all in the prep... If done right it amazingly pleasurable. If done wrong then yes it can be torture for the girl.

Not if you do it right way: lub and someone who cares and make it slow, carefully, and of course teases and turn you on before start trying it! http://letstalkaboutsextoday.wordpress.com/

not really just use plenty of lube and relax,,,,

It shouldn´t hurt if you do it the right way. With some nice and good lub and a guy that cares about you and do it slowly.. and also takes the time to warm you up and get you going it wont hurt. http://letstalkaboutsextoday.wordpress.com/