Would you be the one to say 'sorry' first to someone you loved even if it's not your fault?
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silhouette
ANSWERS: 13
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i always say sorry whether or not its my fault.. somehow when both of you came into an argument, you shared a fault for sure.. so i just say sorry when things got chilled..
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Oh yes! I have no problem saying sorry first. After all, it takes two to make a fight. And even if it was not my fault, if i loved someone, and i wanted to make it right again, i would never hestitate to apologise first.
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Absolutely not. That would be a very submissive thing to do, and I worry somebody would lose respect. I always apologize if it's my fault though.
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Yes as relationships are full of compromises and rather than stay mad it's best to just get back on track.
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yup - have done it and will again - even when I am CONVINCED I did nothing to apologize for. It's call compromise. A relationship cannot work without it.
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It depends on who the loved one is. My mother? Eh, maybe, maybe not. Horrible person I am, I know. Father? Well, since this question only pretains to loved ones, we will leave him out, yes? Cousions? Well, again, maybe, maybe not. Aunts & Uncles? Again, it depends... Now, for the Girl I love so very dearly, my Sweetest and most Angelic Goddess? Yes, I do... because I do beleive, many times, that the things that happen are my fault, and mine alone, for - and I know I am a damned fool for this - in my eyes, She is perfect...
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I did with my first husband and the second absolutely not. If he is in the wrong, he knows I will not give in. I know that sounds hard, but I have been there and I have moved on to be a better person and liking myself every day
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Yes because i tend to apologize a lot even if it has nothing to do with me maybe its a bad thing but i always say I'm sorry for everything that goes wrong.
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No..I don't think that I could apologize for something that was not even remotely my fault, to do so would be apologizing to make someone else feel better not because I had caused them hurt or anger etc.. If it's my fault, I will be very quick to apologize, if its not, I won't because then as they feel better I would resent having to apologize for something just to make them feel better..I would more than likely say when you get over it, lets talk..cold? perhaps..but true to my own thoughts feelings and beliefs
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Even though I don't believe it's right to do so, I know I'm usually the one to say "sorry" even when I'm not at fault..........guess I'm just a big push over!
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Yes, only to the person I love, mind you.
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No. I don't say sorry for things I'm not sorry about. End of story. As long as I don't feel wrong about it, then I don't say sorry. Sometimes I'll apologize for making someone hurt, but not for the thing I did that hurt them if it's not something I am remorseful about.
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Yes i would, if i knew the fight was going to last a long time. I dont like being mad at my lover and i think eventually that my lover would realize that i do accept (fault) eventually just so we can get along.And intern she would realize that she is not always right... even if i say she is.I call that compramize?? What do u think. Is that crazy or is that LOVE??? i maybe wrong but i maybe right?????
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