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by Mandydl on May 14th, 2007

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Example:at least 1x week-hubby says he'll be home 4 dinner&never shows?no call,doesn't answer his cell,comes home 12-1-2am or the next day w/ no remorse...says he planed to come home but changed his mind, and went drinking instead? Do all husbands do this

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  • by jtolb65 on May 14th, 2007

    jtolb65

    No, we don't. To me this is highly inappropriate and shows nothing but disdain for you, his soulmate.

    If my wife is going to go to the trouble of cooking me a meal, then you can bet your last dollar that I'm going to show up, and on time. If I can't make it when I say I can, I'm going to call and let her know why and how much longer it's going to take me to get home. I owe her that much.

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  • by Gideon on May 14th, 2007

    Gideon

    No, all husbads do not show open disregard and disresepct for their wives and family.

    Your husband seems to have a problem with accountability and other people's feelings. You should definitely talk to him about this; you may want to look into counseling. It sounds like there may be some issues in this marriage.

    But no, this is not appropriate behavior and you deserve to be treated better. You get what you settle for. Good luck.

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  • by researcher for God on May 14th, 2007

    researcher for God

    I DONT!

    I get excited about coming home to my wife & girls! :-)

    Drinking alcohol just causes trouble! :-(

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  • by Galeanda on May 14th, 2007

    Galeanda

    They better not. No, good husbands do not do this. Husbands who respect and honour their wives and the work of their wives, DO NOT do this. He is thoughtless and inconsiderate. He is selfish and only thinks of himself. He is completely in the wrong. And you know this, too. I would not be surprised if drinking is not the only thing he does away from the house. Wife and husband need a good long sitdown and talk session, together, becasue things ARE going to change.

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  • by Sarita1 Goes Bollywood on May 14th, 2007

    Sarita1 Goes Bollywood

    No and I am sorry but this shows no respect for you as his wife.

    You need to talk to him about this behavior and you need to tell him that when he does this you worry about him and he needs to call you. A call takes a few seconds.

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  • by Shelby on May 14th, 2007

    Shelby

    No. If i were married and my husband did this ONCE, it would be the last time.

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  • by Emmagirl wants to leave and not leave... on May 14th, 2007

    Emmagirl wants to leave and not leave...

    honey... he's a creep. Either he is cheating on you, or he thinks you are not worth dirt. Either way, what i don't understand is why you don't confront him and ask him why he does that? Its not about asking if all husbands do this - who cares if all husbands do it - if you don't like yr husband doing it, then please talk to yr husband!

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  • by 100 percent pure... BEEF CHUCK on May 14th, 2007

    100 percent pure... BEEF CHUCK

    No...Just the ones who cheat. Sorry =(

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  • by .avallach on May 14th, 2007

    .avallach

    That'd be a good time to call a locksmith. Because unless he's doing some top-secret undercover work for the CIA or something, there's no excuse for this.

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  • by boredingeorgia on May 14th, 2007

    boredingeorgia

    NOPE....been dealing with that since NOV...he's a cheater...

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  • by onkponk on May 14th, 2007

    onkponk

    No. I always call when I'm going to be more than 30 minutes late.

    Now, I don't know if I'd go as far as others that have answered and say he is cheating; however, I wouldn't rule it out.

    Let him know you don't appreciate his disrespect and lack of concern for your feelings.

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  • by Anonymoose on May 14th, 2007

    Anonymoose

    No. At least mine doesn't do this. Somehow the song about "your cheating heart" comes to mind. Might want to call a PI. Good luck.

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  • by unknown on May 14th, 2007

    unknown

    No they don't all do this. And if my husband did it he would find his clothes outside waiting for him the next time he pulled a stunt like that.

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