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You can't. But you are very wise to be cautious. If he really cared, he would be tested for your peace of mind.
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Stop. You shouldn't have to convince him to do that, he should want to make sure he's healthy and he should want to keep you in good health. If he doesn't, then forget him, he's not looking out for your best interest. Hell, he's not even looking out for his.
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I totally agree you have a right to know if you plan to have sex with him. I'm not sure there's a way to convince him though. I mean, if he's worried you'll care, you can make it 'seem' like you wouldn't care if he had one or some.
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Why would he be so weird about getting tested unless he's got something to hide? He's being ridiculous. If he continues this crap, dump him. You shouldn't have to do anything to convince him to get tested except say, "I want to make sure that we're as safe as possible, so please get tested." In the meantime, stand your ground and don't touch him. I'd be concerned about what else he might be hiding if he won't even get checked to make sure his penis isn't infected, though...
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