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Thats just it, you can't make him happy,... ever. He must first find happiness within himself. I know this sounds kinda esoteric, but thats the truth. You can't force things into changing that won't go into changing. The best thing you can do, is try not to make him happy, and do something that makes you happy. Though this may seem difficult at first, after a few steps to your own happiness things will become clearer to you. Your boyfriend, and let's put some emphasis on friend here, is acting like a boy, when what you really need is a man in your life. He may pull the sympathy trip with you that he's in the military fighting for our freedom wich is good and all, but it is not a reason to treat your lady like a punching bag. I hope this helps you on your path to happiness. Fuzzy logic from the kitty.
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I agree with "they kitty" First is he just in the miltary? Or is he really over there fighting for our freedom as you say. IS he in the war? Back from the war? Or just using the fact that he is in the miltary and stand the chance to go to war as tool in his arguements? I say treat him well, but stop trying to make him happy. Do things that make you happy, and if he does not straighten up. Then well wash your hands of him and find someone who will be the guy you need.
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