My boyfriend and i have been going out for 1 year and 4 months and we have never spoken about marrige....is this normal? We each have our own plans for the future but we've never mentioned each other in those plans. Should I bring this convo up?

Do you want to talk about it? If so, then bring it up, if you take comfortin the fact that it has never been talked about, don't bother with it anymore. It's that simple.

I say don't say anything about it. How do you know if he isn't thinking about it... :) You may be suprised this summer.. You never know... Don't ruin things! Be patient! :)

You have to ask yourself a few questions first.
1. Will I scare him away with asking?
2. Do I want to know the answer?
3. What do I want?
This should help you make a decision about bringing it up. Me being the outsider, GO FOR IT!!!!!!!It cannot hurt then you will at least know what is on the table.

If you are in a "serious" relationship then you should be able to talk openly about anything on your mind. Doesn't have to be a conversation about if or when...
just talk about what is on your mind.

It seems perfectly normal to me....one way to look at it is maybe you guys don't talk abt it because you guys already know that you both will be there in the future together....i think if this were several years into your relationship and you guys were having problems then it would be odd....but i think sometimes if you're riding a good wave with someone...its best to see where it takes you, of course be aware of how your relationship is going though...but the way i see it is this convo might spark drama...and drama...causes issues between couples...less drama the better....