If you dont want it, say so. I don't understand why some guys do.

Sure, one word... Astroglide and lots of foreplay. http://www.astroglide.com/

It sounds like you are the girl and you are willing so here are the tips: 1) Go to the bathroom before you get started. Get all feces and urine out of you, that you can. 2) Buy and use an enema on yourself. If you are not too embarrassed ask your b/f to give it to you. Turn it into foreplay... You are the sexy coed and he's the campus doctor giving you an exam and enema. 3) Let the enema work and then go to the bathroom again. 4) Now this is the fun part for you. Your b/f has to be willing to spend lots of time getting you ready. For me I get on my hands and knees. My b/f loves how exposed I am to him in that position. He can see everything. He starts with a well lubed finger and he gently goes in and out of me. Slowly he works up to 2 fingers, then three with LOTS of lube. I mean it's messy. 5) When three fingers are going up me easily he switches to a small vibrator. When I can take that he moves up to an even bigger one. Some times he has me change positions so I lay on my side and pull my knees way up but he definitely prefers me in the first position. Every thing shows and he loves that. In the first position one hand can dedicate to vaginal the other to anal (DON'T LET HIM MIX UP HANDS).. The rule is vaginal can to go anal but NOT the reverse. 6) When I can take the vibrators I'm usually ready for him. He gets me back on hands and knees near the edge of the bed and he lubes (or I do) his penis and then he begins to push in. This is the embarrassing part of me. To help him go in I have to push like I'm going to the bathroom. If there is any gas or air up me out it will come and it makes noise.. He understands but it is still a little embarrassing. 7) Once he is inside the first few strokes must be gentle and you give him feed back on how far to go. Work it slowly and if he needs to pull out and lube more that works too. My b/f has a squirt bottle and he will stick that up me and squirt some lube actually up inside me. That works real well. 8) Once he starts stroking the other embarrassing thing is the possibility of more gas or air. Don't let it stop you. Just blush a little and endure. It's perfectly natural. For your first time a condom is a must. If you are both clean and careful you can eventually do it with out. I prefer it without a condom as I love the direct feel of up inside me. But we are both very clean and know exactly what we are doing. It seems like a lot of work but for me personally I've had the best climaxes during anal. So has my boyfriend.