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by munchkin_kids_downunder on May 4th, 2007

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If your 'other halve' was caught by you cheating with someone who also had a partner, would you inform that person's 'other halve' that there partner was cheating on them?

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  • by Anonymous on May 29th, 2007

    Anonymous

    Oh yeah !! Except I wouldn't say anything to either of them until I had photographic proof Via Private Detective. It would be much more fun in divorce court that way.

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  • by Anonymous on May 29th, 2007

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    I think you have an obligation to let that person's other half know about the indiscretion. Be prepared however for that person to get angry at you for accusing their partner. Much in the same way you blame the other person but choose to forgive your husband.
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    I think you will be a lot happier if you come to grips with what happened and focus this energy on repairing your relationship. What is done is done. It hurts... it sucks... it can never be undone. Perhaps a marriage counseller can help.
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    I know we have had disputes in the past but it saddens me to see this take up so much of your energies.
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    Wishing you the best.

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  • by MIA on May 29th, 2007

    MIA

    When I found out my husband had cheated I did not call her husband...of course my husband threatened if I did he would make things worse for me. Of course idiot me listened!!! Anyway, I have gravely regretted never telling the "other womans" husband. They ended up getting divorced anyway so he evidently realized what he had but it would have been a little satisfaction for me had I revealed their deceit.I hate you are having to go through this. Best wishes.

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  • by Lippycow on May 4th, 2007

    Lippycow

    Certainly would i think its only fair to let them know what their other half was up to.

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  • by the general on May 30th, 2007

    the general

    i wouldn t even bother,i d just permanently end that relationship and let them play out their own version of Peyton Place,what goes around ,comes around.

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  • by Shelby on May 29th, 2007

    Shelby

    Absolutely! If my relationship is going to be destroyed, I'm going to make sure the (insert proper curse word here) that was sleeping with my boyfriend has her relationship destroyed as well.

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  • by kismet2102 on May 29th, 2007

    kismet2102

    I would definetly say something. I am sure you were hurt when you found out and you would have wanted to know if it was the other way around

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  • by P. W. Pasobrio loves Marines on May 29th, 2007

    P. W. Pasobrio loves Marines

    I would. And as they were still putting on their pants. In fact I might even make the call to the other party in the same room and hand their spouse the phone.

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  • by Sheriff Raff -Answerhag on May 29th, 2007

    Sheriff Raff -Answerhag

    Sounds like good clean fun to me, go for it.

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  • by Gingerminx on June 27th, 2009

    Gingerminx

    No, their relationship is none of my business.

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  • by UneFille on June 27th, 2009

    UneFille

    I probably would. Even though it seems tacky.

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  • by Treval on June 27th, 2009

    Treval

    I would think you probably should, but don't go in angry or saying things in an angry tone while your talking to them. The calmer you remain, the more likely they'll stay a bit calmer themselves.

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  • by Anonymous on July 19th, 2007

    Anonymous

    Absolutly- let the 2 cheaters have eachother! Why would I want to protect the relationship of someone who didn't have the decentcy to respect my realtionship?

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  • by staffie on May 30th, 2007

    staffie

    no because the other persons relationship is up to them. i would be more concerned with my own. the other girl wouldnt just get away with it though and neither would my bf

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  • by Sheriff Raff -Answerhag on May 30th, 2007

    Sheriff Raff -Answerhag

    It would be your civic duty I think. Misery loves company.

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  • by fishy on June 27th, 2009

    fishy

    Hell yes.

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  • by ladyshakespeare on June 27th, 2009

    ladyshakespeare

    bet your bottom I would!!! Her husband has just as right to knwo he is being betrayed.

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  • by raindancer on June 28th, 2009

    raindancer

    You are damned right I would. They are cheating on their partner AND screwing around with someone who is taken. They deserve what they get. Reap what you sow. You made your bed, now lie in it. All those great sayings! :)

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  • by TAPriceCTR s son is wearing his COAT on June 28th, 2009

    TAPriceCTR s son is wearing his COAT

    yes... because I would want the same.

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  • by Chihuahua-Lover on July 19th, 2007

    Chihuahua-Lover

    Yes I would. They have every right to know what their partner is doing, behind their back.

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