Realistic looking? Breast implants are best left for reconstruction, face it, not every breast cancer survivor can handle having to wear a bra with a removable prosthetic and just accept that, instead a lot go for the implants and tattooing. It is a big deal to loose a part of one's body and it takes awhile to accept that, implants are really hard to accept too, for some. Topless and nude dancers, have their own reasoning for acquiring implants, personally as long as the emotions are fueling their dance, I didn't mind slanging their fans drinks, they enjoyed the show and had no problem, the dancers that were just trying to flaunt rarely got drinks bought for them and that cut into my tips, because customers simply weren't interested, and hospitality only goes so far and then customers start looking at wait staff for entertainment. Most people in a topless or nude bar could care less how the dancer actually looks, it is the dance that is entertaining, not the actual stripping anyway. A lot of women looking to make a career out of having breast implants really ought to realize, other people are going to make money off of them too, and not even look at them, they themselves could make money just fine and just as well sagging with stretch marks as long as they are out there feeling good and having a good time dancing, and they don't even have to be super fit to do it. Women who want these breast implants because they have self esteem issues, because of dancers or other entertainment, ought to try looking at self esteem from a different perspective than the mirror gives and the clubs and tv dish out, try just being instead of comparing or trying to add up or equal to someone else, and save calculations for the bank book. The only thing disgusting about stretch marks and saggy breasts is the simple immaturity others have about it. Women have beauty about them, that if they themselves do not realize as a women, breast implants are not going to fix. I am a straight woman, and I can appreciate, and have enough confidence to survive. If you feel like a bathing suit or shirt, or other article of clothing doesn't look right because of a cup size or cup size difference, try to look at the clothing from a different perspective, it's clothing and if you are trying to show your body off, maybe the cut wasn't right try hiring a tailor first. If there is such a difference in cup size that it isn't something a padded bra or a tailor can fix, and you are suffering from pain because of the anatomical imbalance, you might look into augmentation, but, otherwise if it is a difference you like, and doesn't hurt or harm you why waste the effort contemplating and becoming a victim because of others opinions? Most people seem to be more concentrated around their money anyway, and if you were doing it because a significant other suddenly became possible if you had surgery, try choosing independence first.
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interesting points
by Lucas_ on August 14th, 2005
"interesting points" However I think that women's wanting big breasts for themselves is connected to them wanting sexy men.
by lilly42 on September 14th, 2005
probably the best example of just why Plastic Surgery is justified, accepted, etc...
by wht5hedvl on October 3rd, 2005
Women also follow the myths promulgated by the culture in which they live.
by RedJohn on December 2nd, 2005
well done anon thats exactly the reason i had mine done!! celestsia, thats rubbish i still only wanted my bf, i got mine done for ME not for anybody else so your way off. wht5hedvl yes that is true :) redjohn i sort of agree there some women are like that, others do it because they follow the crowd but mostly women get them to feel feminine.
by sjane23 on October 26th, 2008
Personally I believe it's the stupidest idea, I am a guy and I can honestly say I find smaller breasts to be alot more attractive. The breast size of a woman is porportional to her body, meaning if she's got a cute in shape body, she probably will not have the largest breasts. If a woman has more fat on her gut she will probably have larger breasts. I see all these cute girls with small sexy breasts wanting to get implants and I think what the hell....why? I mean look at Shakira she has small breasts yet they make her and her body look beautiful.
by mrfrogmite on November 3rd, 2009
shakira has bigger breasts than most small breasted women, mine were a 32aa so training ba size, you may see implants as a 'stupid' idea but know that most women take much consideration into account before going down that path. you just don't seem to understand. I find small breasted women attractive but wouldn't comment either way if they wanted to change their bodies.
by sjane23 on November 10th, 2009