You have to decide that for yourself. If you leave your boyfriend for another boy, your boyfriend will feel angry at your for just breaking up and going out with someone else. But, if you like the other boy and want to be with him and not your boyfriend, when you and your boyfriend breakup, your boyfriend will lose a lot of respect for you as a person. If you stay with him and want to be with the other boy more, you are lying to him and abusing him. Decide which boy you like best and go to that boy. Give it at least a week of thought before you make your decision. I personally would prefer the stability of a relationship. You have a boyfriend. If you leave him for some other boy who you like, it just shows that you are fickle. However, if you like the other boy more than your boyfriend, you really need to leave your boyfriend.

I would guess that you are relatively young, perhaps a teen-ager yet. There's nothing wrong with being attracted to more than one other person. That's known as playing the field and indicates that you are not yet ready to "go steady," or contemplate becoming engaged or married, assuming you are legally old enough to take that step. Keep seeing both of your young gentlemen friends, but be honest about it and let each know that you truly like him and enjoy his company but that you don't want to commit yourself to an exclusive relationship at this stage of your life. I told my daughter 19 years ago when she went off to college that she would meet many fascinating new people and that she would find herself romantically attracted to more than a few of them. I advised her to spend time with all of those to whom she was attracted and not be too hasty in settling on one particular individual. And if she did happen to "fall madly in love" with one particular person, that's no reason to rush into a lifetime commitment of marriage, because often the attraction is merely physical, particularly with young people. I advised my daughter to ask herself before she made such a decision: Is this the person I want to spend the rest of my life with and is this the person whom I want to be the father of my children? Well, my daughter did fall in love, several times, and I'm sure she enjoyed the romantic relationships. She finally married when she found the right man, a good man, at 34 years of age, who passed muster on the two questions I advised her to ask herself. She just had her second child a few weeks ago at the age of 37. The father adores the children and is lovingly devoted to my daughter. I think she made the right decisions. Signed Pop-Pop

Do you you feel is the best decision for you. However if you decide to dump your current partner do not go straight to the other person, this will cause anger and alot of talking about you behind your back. This is from personal experience where I dumped my boyfriend then 2 days later I got with the other guy. It is not the best of ideas as your ex will be angry, they will say stuff about you, calling things such as a "slag" or "whore" which gets spread around, especially if your a teenager which makes things worse because of the bitchiness of todays teens.

I'm in the exact same situation, I have known my fiance since i was 11, we started dating when i was 14 after 3 years of convincing him i could make him happy. Lately, he hasnt been showing me attention since we moved in together and there is a guy who wants to take me out and treat me like a princess which i love the idea of, however, how do i know this guy is going to be worth throwing away a 3 year relationship, My soulmate and my first and only lover? Why am i attracted to this person? Because he's being nice to me like my fella isnt? I can always get that back from the relationship, this new guy may be after 1 thing and then i'll be left with no one...I would stick with your fella and try to work it out, if it doesnt work, atleast you can say you tried.