I asked out this girl three months ago. She said she liked someone else. We have stayed friends and talk almost everyday. Yet, she still isn't dating anyone. Should I ask her out again? Or, is she just not into me?
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it can't hurt to try again. more than likely she thinks you are a good friend and is "afraid" to go any farther with it and chance of loosing a good friend. that is the choice because it happens. is she worth the chance. i say follow your heart. it will be broken if you don't but it stands to reason that it could be broken if she says no. but you will never know unless you are willing to take that chance.
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oooooh tricky one is there someone you can ask as to why she isnt dating, ask her to come out with you for the day with you and tell her you have "confused feelings" for her. Tell her you may like her more than as a friend. Dont try and kiss her (that only works in the movies) but maybe hold her hands in yours as you tell her and look into her eyes as you tell her.
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you let her ask you as she may only think of you as her friend.
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I think three months is a reasonable time to let pass before asking again. You should not pester her, but I think you are a long way from that. Ask again, nicely - and good luck.
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I've had a similar situation with a female friend of mine that I asked if she would ever consider going out with me, and her response was always "I don't wand to ruin a great friendship with a relationship that could turn sour, and end up hurting me or both of emotionally. I always thought that meant that she's not into me that much, and also because every boyfriend this girl had=s ever had ended up in breaking up because these guys never treated her with the respect that she deserves and I can. I always treat women with respect no matter what.
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Honestly, I used that one on a dude before. shes not that into you. She likes you so she doesnt wanna hurt your feelings (as a friend)....So she didnt wanna just reject you, or be mean. I wouldnt ask again, but stay her friend. That is what she wants. (even though she didnt tell you the best of ways)
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As a woman, I can say what's really going on tends to vary. If it was me, I would probably be afraid to tell you how I felt, or that I wasn't good enough for you. She may have had bad experiences in the past that made it difficult for her to trust people. I still am that way a little bit. So just tell her how much you love her. If that doesn't work ask for her to be honest with you. If she can't be honest with you then that may be something that you'd need to discuss.
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