by tessa on April 15th, 2007

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Have u ever loved or though u love guy/girl and went out with that person then a few days later found he/she was cheeting or talking behind your back on u what should u do and y should u do it like that i realy need help help me now i will help u

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  • by PrettyPirate on April 16th, 2007

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    If I started a relationship with someone and then found out that they were talking about me in a negative way behind my back, I would confront them about the issue and try to resolve any communication issues that may be present. Open and honest communication is a must. I'm inclined to say that anyone who is immature enough to backstab you probably isn't worth your time.

    If I found out that my partner was cheating on me, and I had enough solid evidence to reach that conclusion, I would immediately end the relationship and sever all contact with them. I can do a million times better than to be stuck with someone who is playing the field a few days after beginning a relationship with me (and so can you).

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  • by reddonna on May 9th, 2009

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    That happened to me when I was really young, and it had a really horrible effect, coz for a long time i didnt trust guys who said they liked me...
    you should definitely NOT dwell on it, don't let it upset you too much (i know thats really hard) and just try to be happy.
    this person treated you badly, and they are scummy, so forget them, and forget what happened :)

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  • by sazzycat09 on September 12th, 2010

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    blow the butt dart off. dont give him the power to bring you down. the first sign of weakness and he will run with it. there really isnt much you can do about it unless it is something that you can report to the school as harrassment or file with the cops if it ever led to anything too big. otherwise it is one of those things that we can consider a growing pain. live and learn then get prick repellant. as you go through life you will start picking up on the signs that the opposit sex gives out, you will become jadded in some asspects if your not careful. the only thing you can do is know that despite what you are feeling at the moment, not every guy out there is going to treat you like that.

    move on, keep your head up high, and just try to believe that not all guys are going to be like that. life may feel a little crummy right now because your feelings got hurt, but in the long run he did you a favor, now your not married to the ass! just look on the bright side, you can do better.

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