by NotSuspiciousAtAll on December 5th, 2011

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Why do people get so upset when you ask them what their gender is?

I was speaking to this person in a line and I couldn't tell what their sex was, so I asked them, and they got angry. As if it's a personal question!

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  • by Marky Mark on December 5th, 2011

    Marky Mark

    It's just rude to ask. The rule of thumb in cases like these is "When in doubt, DON'T ask!".

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  • by Simply Pengu on December 5th, 2011

    Simply Pengu

    i am a lesbian trapped in a man's body.

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  • by Over and Out on December 5th, 2011

    Over and Out

    Why would someone get upset that someone doesn't want to reveal their gender on here?

    This isn't a dating site .. it's a Q&A site and some people prefer to remain anonymous. It's their choice ...

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  • by Wellduh on December 5th, 2011

    Wellduh

    Why would you ask that anyway? What difference does it make?

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  • by drweet on December 5th, 2011

    drweet

    Lol well it is true though. If they don't want to be asked or stared at they should like wear a tee shirt that says I'm a woman. Or something. lol Do I hear an idea for a new clothing line? Now also available I'm not pregnant and I am pregnant shirts! So you always know to to congratulate and who to call fat behind their back. :)

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  • by Lee_P7004 on December 5th, 2011

    Lee_P7004

    Because if he's a man, it's like saying he's not masculine enough. And if she's a woman, not feminine enough. ;)

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  • by Timjon on December 5th, 2011

    Timjon

    You gotta be kidding! If someone asked you that, how would it make YOU feel? Come on, get real!

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  • by HEYTHERE on December 5th, 2011

    HEYTHERE

    They thought you should have known without asking.

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  • by shunyata on December 5th, 2011

    shunyata

    weird hm?

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  • by BabyRottie on January 27th, 2012

    BabyRottie

    It would probably be really humiliating to be asked something like that. A better way to do that would be to introduce yourself by name, and then ask what their name is.

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  • by GGirl on January 27th, 2012

    GGirl

    First of all, it can embarrassing to some to be asked. And second of all it depends on how it's asked, the tone and maybe the privacy of the question. It happens to me fairly often and about half the time the question is meant to embarrass or belittle me. My question is why would you feel a need to ask a complete stranger that question to begin with

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  • by gaprincess on December 5th, 2011

    gaprincess

    I don't know for sure.Some people are very touchy.

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  • by The Doctor of Computer Forumz on December 5th, 2011

    The Doctor of Computer Forumz

    Too hard of a question. I think you stumped them.

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  • by Irina_Z on December 5th, 2011

    Irina_Z

    Maybe they are upset because they can't check past their stomach, and the chest isn't always a good reference?

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  • by TELLITASITIS on December 5th, 2011

    TELLITASITIS

    it wouldn't occur 2 me 2 ask that - it's a touchy thing 2 ask a stranger what their gender is. If not sure, KYMS

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  • by Thriftymaid on December 5th, 2011

    Thriftymaid

    Some of them probably don't know.

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  • by ErgoStep on December 5th, 2011

    ErgoStep

    It's asking them what their crotch looks like.

    That's something you infer, rather than directly asking.

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  • by ThWlkngDed on December 5th, 2011

    ThWlkngDed

    Well of course it would get pissed in public......
    I've seen "pats" too, but I don't fuc*in ask them which gender they are.

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