by Lisa Marchande on July 17th, 2005

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My girlfriend and I have heard that any girl can learn how to squirt. Both of us have tried but neither of us can do it. Is it truly possible to learn how to squirt, or is it exclusive to only some women?

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  • by JeSuisAKittyCat on April 13th, 2006

    JeSuisAKittyCat

    All girls are born with the same equipment so why shouldn't a girl be able to?

    Maybe if girls started masturbating at a young age like boys they to would be able to acheive an ejaculatory orgasm. However, unfortunatly we are raised in a society that makes girls feels that masturbating is wrong or dirty whereas boys just don't care. Guys don't know how to ejaculate at the drop of a hat, they need to learn a technique that works for them, just as girls do, though many girls won't release because they fear they are going to urinate as it feels somewhat that way.

    Female ejaculate comes comes from the urethra, produced by the prostate, just like males, the fluid does not smell or look like urine, only approximately 2% of either male or female ejaculate contains any urine.

    There is information out there to help learn..

    A good read is on this is.. http://www.angelfire.com/indie/amazon/sex.html

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  • by soberman on August 1st, 2005

    soberman

    i think that it might have alot to do with the comfort levels of "releasing"and the specific technique being used. some women might not "squirt" as much or as far as others, but the release of those fluids can be manipulated in such a way (not by the one who is squirting, by the technique being used ) that there is a forceful discharge. my girlfriend does it and she doesn't neccessarily know that she is doing it, and she nor i have any control on how much or how strong it is going to be. sometimes i have tried and it doesn't happen, other times it has been extreme! looking back, the most extreme time was when we hadn't been with each other (OR ANYONE ELSE) for a long period of time. the sexual tension and desires had built up all day/ night and through using the technique i know, the results blew my mind. she had no idea that it occured ( there is a sensation experienced but the woman may not recognize it) until she physically saw the aftermath. basically to my limited knowledge it occurs when the G spot has been stimulated, usually by intense and rigorous pressure or pumping. the first time i used the method, i did it at the time of orgasm after a long period of raising and lowering her clitoral stimulation (orally) in a calculated and controlled manner. i had studied this technique carefully before i attempted and i did not make her aware that i was trying to make her "squirt". it worked! i have noticed that during intercouse, positions that stimulate the G spot, alot of fluids are being released, but not squirting (probably due to the obvious impeding factors). it can be done with or without orgasm and is something that i have found, for us, depends alot on the build up of sexual desire. she is never "aware" that i am trying to do it. she also has a great amount of comfort with her body and my interaction with it. so, i believe that the secret lies in the development of a technique that works for the specific woman, trust, position of the body ( you might try it while your partner is standing up with one leg raised, it works the best for us ) the womans ability to fully release and let go of all control, sexual desire and build up of sexual stimulation. i might be wrong, and encourage any scientific proof that is just an ability only some posess, but i hope not. find all the information you can on the " female ejaculation" , be open minded to different methods, don't give up, try to avoid making "squirting" the primary goal and just focus on pleasuring your partner in new ways. hopefully, you'll be successful. or maybe i am just one lucky guy. :))

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  • by Anonymous on November 12th, 2008

    Anonymous

    No, she can learn how to! I did. And Ima gonna tell you how:

    Its probably better to let her learn on her own first then bring you in on the fun. She needs to make sure she goes pee before she starts. Then she needs to be relaxed with no interuptions, my g-spot is just about at the lip of the vagina so I dont need to go far. Use a dildo to stimulate her g spot, or fingers. I like to start with the clit then work my g spot. Just keep it going until she feels like she needs to pee- thats when she has to let go and go pee (but it isnt pee, she is squirting) She will kinda push out with her orgasm, that was the step I was missing I wasnt pushing, once I did that Whoa! It took me a few times so dont get discouraged! and stay relaxed, if you get frustrated just try it again another time. Once you get good at it, she can cum over and over! its great!

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  • by Clairecool02 on July 25th, 2005

    Clairecool02

    My opinion is that most women that haven't done it just don't know how.

    The following web site should help you, I personally bought the DVD although a bit expensive I was able to partake in this amazing act myself after watching it. Good Luck!

    http://www.holisticwisdom.com/article_sex_female-ejaculation.htm

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  • by anguilla on July 17th, 2005

    anguilla

    It's exclusive to only some women.

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  • by Gushing on October 1st, 2009

    Gushing

    My husband and I also had trouble learning to squirt. We were successful after some research and practice. A site we found helpful was www.learn2squirt.com. Squirting is an orgasm so intense ironically I call it a "good" scare. Try that site out and have fun.

    www.learn2squirt.com

  • by Frederik on August 30th, 2009

    Frederik

    Some women can and do and others don't.
    But they all can have the same satisfying kind of sex.
    I think squirting is not so important.

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  • by Fireblade05 on June 30th, 2010

    Fireblade05

    My boyfriend just started rubbing my clitoris and then when he found a spot which made my legs shake he carried on and on it was amazing the pleasure is so intense if you can't do it manually try using the shower on a jet type setting and find a spot by/on your clitoris that makes your legs shake and it'll just happen or at least it does for me

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  • by Playmate_Kayla on November 25th, 2010

    Playmate_Kayla

    Tonight was my first time. I have been having sex since July 1999. Me and my boyfriend of 3 months was having sex, when we took a lil break and went to the couch. I layed down with him in front of me He was fingering me.. then stoped I told him to do what he was just doing it was totally different then I ever felt before. He said it was on the right if that helps! He did it again then all of a sudden I squirted. It was an amazing feeling. YOu just need to study your partners cues. Id advice everyone to keep trying. OOOH and it do feel like you have a pee. I usually tightens my muscles down there during sex, but at this point I couldnt, I kept pushing out. Bam!!!

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  • by Makinitrain on August 22nd, 2011

    Makinitrain

    Listen, It is simple. If a girl can pee, she can squirt. I have 5 steps that with a little practice you can make it rain! Step One: Turn her on as much as humanly possible without going inside the vagina, a little clit rub never hurt anybody. Mostly massage and kissing though to get her hot and comfortable. Step 2: Put a pillow or something underneath her hips to raise them up. Step 3: Make a spiderman/rock on thing with your hand, you know.. !,,!

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  • by ~~James~~ on February 14th, 2010

    ~~James~~

    yes, it's easy, you have to get your two middle fingers and instead of going in and out, go up and dow and after a while you should squirt. http://www.redtube.com/15878

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  • by merle234 on September 1st, 2009

    merle234

    Yes it is possible, look up some instructions in google.

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