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by Cayla_W on October 21st, 2011

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Is it wrong to have casual sex with someone.

I mean just with one guy, not different people, like friends with benifits kind of thing, there is this one guy who wants to be friends with benifits with me, and I kind of want the same thing too, we are both really sexually attracted to each other as well, I'm curently single, and have been for over 3 years, and I don't see that changing anytime soon, so I would not be cheating on anyone, and the guy has very strict parents, so he is not allowed to date anyone who is not dutch, because he is dutch. In your opinion do you think this is okay or not okay? I would rather be dating someone before having sex with them, at the same time though, I just don't think I can wait till I am dating someone again though, cause that could be a very long time. You see I'm a girl who happens to be horny all the time, I will not sleep around though, because I do not want people to think I am a whore, because I am not. I do masturbate a lot, but that is just not as good as the real thing. I just don't know what to do.

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  • by Sassylisa47374 on October 25th, 2011

    Sassylisa47374

    I like having casual sex. My boyfriend likes to share me with others while he watches and takes pictures and video of me having casual sex with other people. I love being shared!

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  • by Sphynx_Lady on October 21st, 2011

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    Well it's only wrong if you put that burden upon yourself... what others think does not matter.... it's how you feel and you comfortable with it, if you are then go with it and don't let others bring you down... As far as the him having to date only Dutch well that could be the real deal some families can be that way very much so and depending on their stature he may not want to push the issue or it's just an excuse to have casual sex...

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  • by ChangeYourNameToSomethingAppropriate on October 23rd, 2011

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    Yep, nothing wrong with it, :D

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  • by Chrisneedsit on November 28th, 2011

    Chrisneedsit

    Cayla- It sounds like you have a solution to your current situation, it is tough to need to get laid so badly and not have a real outlet for it. Don't get me wrong masturbating is great, but not as great as sex with someone else.

    As long as you two can keep the emotional side detached from the sex, this sounds like a great setup. He is a lucky guy I bet.

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  • by Zaburo3665 on October 22nd, 2011

    Zaburo3665

    Can you walk away from this relationship, when he finds a gf or you find a bf?

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  • by Heather108 on November 23rd, 2011

    Heather108

    Sex and love are two different things, not necessarily related one to the other, and having sex is our only biological reason to be alive. In fact, sex predates the custom of marriage by over a million years of human history.
    Personally, I don't do and have never done one night stands, my four date rule takes care of that and in order to preserve my spotless reputation I have never taken part in any form of group sex or partner swapping.
    Before you put me in the box with the prudes let me say that I have been sexually active from the day after my fourteenth birthday and that has continued with some number of boyfriends over the past twelve years.
    That first time partner was not really a boyfriend, just a seventeen year old neighborhood high school senior, and he has continued to be my friend-with-benefits whenever we can get together.
    I'm thinking that would be classified as "casual sex" and I highly recommend it.

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  • by MadamTina on October 22nd, 2011

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    I dont see a problem with it

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  • by chaz on October 21st, 2011

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    If you can handle it mentally & are playing safe then I dont see why not, the problem with friends with benefits is that someone always falls for the other emotionally. Maybe hold back on the sex bit for a while & just keep it to both of ye masturbating each other for a while & see how you feel then, if you are ok with that then go to next level, have fun, your friend is a lucky guy

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  • by ida_man on October 21st, 2011

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    I don't think it's wrong to have a friends with benefits situation, especially how you are describing it. It sound like you will only have this guy as your sexual partner, so my only concern would be who he would/could be sleeping with at the same time. You certainly don't want to contract any stds, so just be careful and remember, you can't control who he sleeps with.

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  • by creamywhip on October 21st, 2011

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    its ok as long as it dosent ruin a good friendship maybe,also if its just sex you both want there can be a strong emotional deeper bond that you may feel towards him after a while so bear that in mind too.but having no sex sucks I should know its been years for me as I wanted a single life for a good while.

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  • by backstory on October 21st, 2011

    backstory

    No, it's not wrong. Just be careful of STDs and pregnancy.

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