Is it a good idea to call a chick up and ask her out over the telephone or is there a better way?
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Brady Smith
ANSWERS: 6
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You should ask her out in whatever way you are comfortable. Some ways are definatly more romantic and will come across more sincerely than others, though. Basically, you should work with the most personal way that you are comfortable with. Ideally, you should ask her out in person. Your last resort, in my opinion, should be e-mail. What you need to do is make her feel special. She needs to understand that you are asking her out, not just some girl. So, work with both her needs and yours. Find the middle ground between your nerves and her ideals. If you can ask her out in person do it. If you can truly only bring yourself to email her, it's better than nothing. The important thing once you decide how to ask her is to ask her. It sounds simple, but for most people it's very hard. Just remember that the worst thing that can happen is that she says no. So what?
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Yes, I think thats ok. Most of the first dates I've been on the guy has called me to ask. Asking in person can be nice, but it means you have to wait until you next bump into her, and it can be more awkward if you're nervous about being rejected. I don't know any women that would be offended by a man who asked them out by telephone. You could even say that it shows greater interest as you've had to purposely make that call to ask, rather than being so disinterested you were willing to just wait around til you next happen to see her. (Tip: text messages are a bit of a wimps way, so actually make the effort to speak to her, even if you feel a bit tongue tied- you don't have to say much!)
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I think that when a guy can sow enough courage to ask a girl out to her face it show that he cares enough to go outside of his comfort zone for you. Even though he risks being hurt, he wants her to know tha he is willing to deal with that hurt for the sake of at least trying to win that girl. Yes, you can be sweet and funny over the phone, but it's a lot more impersonal than it would be if you asked her to her face.
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Nothing wrong with phone invites.
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Doesn't matter. The date is the one that counts.
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