by Deadriser1984 on September 2nd, 2010

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my great grandma died yesterday and i cant stop thinking about it please any advise how to get a little over it

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  • by nene23 on September 2nd, 2010

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    When my aunt was in the Hospital dying if cancer, I couldn't stop thinking about her. So, one morning before church, I went to see her and when I saw her all I did was cry. That morning i didn't go to church. When I got home, about 10 or 15 mintues later, they called and told me she died. After that, I slept peacefully. I can say, I was just worried about her. Back to your question. Basically, just go visit her gravesite, and once you get there, step over her grave. That helps you to stop thinking about her, because she's alright and she's in a better place now. Just remember the good things about her. Sorry about your loss.

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  • by WABOO on September 2nd, 2010

    WABOO

    Just let go and pray for her.

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  • by Piggle on September 2nd, 2010

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    It was only yesterday and she has been around all your life - allow yourself to grieve, if you haven't cried properly and feel you need to, just let it go - you'll feel better for it. If you are thinking, "what ifs" or wishing you had said things to her - say them; have a chat with her and believe she can hear you.

    You will think about her a lot over the next few days, you will have to deal with the funeral and that will start as a difficult day but often the entire day isn't so sad; very emotional yes, but when everyone is together after the ceremonial bit, you find yourselves reminiscing and there will be happy memories shared between family and friends.

    In time, you will think of her less often but when you do it will be with fondness and easier to bear. Give it time.

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  • by -O-uknow on September 2nd, 2010

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    No advice. Keep remembering him. Time will heal.

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  • by garett7 on September 2nd, 2010

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    Live your life in such a way as to make her proud. In time you'll smile at the quirky things she did. The pain will pass.

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  • by JPsgirl on September 2nd, 2010

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    Time will help you "get over it." But honestly, a family member died, which is a SAD time for most of us, so you will just have to feel sad for a while. Why do you feel the need to move away from grief? It is a part of life. Of course you can't stop thinking about it, and of course you feel sad. You will just have to feel all of that for a while longer. That is what happens when we lose a loved one. Sorry for your loss. Give it time, and you will begin to feel better.

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