I am going thru a separation, and know that my husband has put money away in a secret account, how do I find it?

Comments

• How do you know she hasn't?
  
  If she is working too and he is secreting money away instead of contributing equally to the household budget he needs to be held accountable.
  
  Your answer is sexist as hell.

  • Report
  

  by Wynper on August 29th, 2010

• I actually agree with Anonymous. Living well is the best revenge. She's better off without the lying, secretive jerk.

  • Report
  

  by JPsgirl on August 29th, 2010

• Wynper,
  
  What is sexist about accepting personal responsibility?
  
  What is sexist about not depending on another for your needs?
  
  What is sexist about taking control of a situation independent of another?

  • Report
  

  by Anonymous on August 29th, 2010

• Your remark assumes she is not contributing to the household income.
  
  If they are both working and he is siphoning off assets and hiding them that is wrong.
  
  No where in my did I suggest she shirk personal responsibility. Nor did I suggest she not take care of herself.
  
  I did tell her she should take control of the situation.
  
  Your assumption that she wasn't was sexist.
  
  She should take care of herself...but that does not include accepting a raid on marital assets or a shirking of financial responsibility on his part so he can pad his bail out fund...or her bail out fund.
  
  One more time...I never suggested she look to him for support...only that she not allow him to siphon off marital assets.

  • Report
  

  by Wynper on August 29th, 2010

Comments

Comments

Comments

Comments

Comments