by peanut7365 on August 27th, 2010

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So I'm a virgin but my boyfriend isn't, how do I get over feeling like I'm being compared to previous girlfriends??

He's and awesome guy and really sweet and caring. He's never once said anything to make me feel inadequate for having no experience, yet that is how I feel. How do I get over it, since I would like to have sex with him and I don't want him to know the stupid things I've now put into my mind. But I need to know what I'm supposed to do??!!!!

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  • by kento37 on August 27th, 2010

    kento37

    You are just feeling a little inadequate about being a virgin. There is no need to feel that way. Is it because when you do have sex you will think you are inadequate as a partner. Don't. Remember everyone started from the beginning. Talk it over with him before you do have sex, and when you do have him help you. Guide you, and most of all be patient. Sex is a learned activity. Just going through the motions of sex is not all there is to it. It's an art to sustain it to completion. Mostly on the man's side. On the woman's side it's learning how to have an orgasm. For some women it's easy and they learn fast, but for most women it takes time and some never experience an orgasm.
    For women touching is very important. There are many areas of the female body that are sensitive to touch when involved in sex. Men too. Both should learn those areas and develop heightening the sensation for more greater sensation. Be patient and learn what satisfies each of you.

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  • by for_the_city on August 27th, 2010

    for_the_city

    guard your heart girl. your virginity is a special thing. once you give it to him, you won't get it back.

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  • by heywhatsup on September 18th, 2010

    heywhatsup

    I don't know if many women know this but men have very little mental capacity "in the moment". The only thing in his whole world will be you. Ge won't be comparing to other girls because you are going to have ALL his attention. If he really loves you, his focus will be pleasuring you because he cares about you so much.

    As far as advice goes, do what comes natural! if you are a quite lover then few light moans here and heavy breaths there will turn him on. If you are rather louder then let it all go! If he isn't a player, he will want to explore YOU more than just your love parts.

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  • by NiceGuyHere4you on August 28th, 2010

    NiceGuyHere4you

    Relax . . . you will be fine. Don't try to imitate what you see in the movies, most of it is "acting." And you already know what you need to do, you just haven't done it yet. If he loves you, then comparison won't be an issue -- he will think YOU are better than any girl before you because he actually loves you and the others are ancient history (and he might not even like them anymore). On the other hand, if you are dating a player, he will make you feel like trash once it is over. Therefore, make SURE the guys likes YOU (as in ALL of you, not just your vagina) before you even consider having sex with him.

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  • by HEYTHERE on August 27th, 2010

    HEYTHERE

    Comparing ourselves to anyone can make us feel inadequate--that is why comparing is so wrong. When you compare, you bypass your own qualities and try instead to be like somebody else. Just be yourself. It's your uniqueness that attracts. There is no one else exactly like you--so live that way. You have many qualities that others don't have. But remember, you can only give away the precious gift of virginity to one person one time. It's okay to hold on to it until the very best and right guy comes along who is willing to totally commit to you. Hope the guy realizes the prize he is receiving.

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  • by level headed on August 27th, 2010

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    Well, if you're a virgin that's a rarity these days. Be proud. But if you have to; just be yourself. Make a little noise and move your hips a little; come up to meet his thrusts.

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  • by hallagan on August 27th, 2010

    hallagan

    If your a teenager, practice on yourself till your done with college or in your 20's. If you get preggo somehow you will look back and say man I wish I wouldn't have done that now I have kids to take care of and my dream career put on hold for 20 years.

  • by melisa666 on December 4th, 2010

    melisa666

    well i cud say something ...try this!!!!
    go down on him and suck him dat your tounge carries his penis back but when he cums make sure his penis is still!! in yr mouth ....(don't swallow spite it back out)..trust me he'll dream that everyday! !

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  • by keylock000 on August 27th, 2010

    keylock000

    you need to just be you lol....thats what he likes about you
    there is no... "shes better than the other"...
    just you thinking that because other girls go for it and you dont...he might think bad things about you .....that is all.... and why should he,,, no reson
    you might just be worth the wait, cos your a real cracker lol....ever though of that?

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