Confusion over a EX - please someone older answer pref female!

Relationships are a HUGE distraction when you have other things to accomplish...you, yourself said the two of you wasted a lot of time together, pleasant though it may have been.

Concentrate on your studies. Be nice, and social when you see her. Make new friends. Don't worry that she gets upset when you speak with other girls...SHE broke up with YOU! Don't set out to hurt her, but you're a free man. Do as you please.

What are you confused about?

So what is the confusion here anyway...you didn`t make that at all clear. If you`re arguing a lot it sounds to me like the relationship is finished and you should move on to someone else.

To be honest with you, I think that was her nicest way of saying that she just didn't want to be with you anymore. I would give her space, when you see her say hi or smile.

I wouldn't worry about her, you'll soon be surrounded by females who will appreciate a guy who is sweet & considerate, instead of just wanting to get in their panties. Everyone says nice guys finish last, but I disagree. You'll be fine, just remember it's her loss.

Mix around and get to know other girls. Focus your mind on something else and soon memories and feelings will fade. It is all in the mind, dude.

Next time, when you see her, relax and act normal. Be friends and let go.

Hope this helps.

Ben

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