Stop when at the point of ejaculation.

Its not really a recommended practice, but there is one thing you can do to physically stop the ejaculation point of an orgasm. When you feel like you're at the point that you are going to ejaculate, take your pointer finger and thumb and gently squeeze the area just below the head...what you are doing is closing down the tube, which is causing the ejaculate to stop and retreat. Do this early...if you do it late into the orgasm, this can be painful, or at the least very uncomfortable. You can also squeeze on the sides of the head, which will close down the tube as well. Once the ejaculate recedes back, you may or may not lose erection. If you do, wait a few mintues before beginning again. Its a well known fact that by stopping and postponing the climax point of the orgasm, the end result will be much more grand than it usually is, but you should be very careful when doing this...too much recession of semen back into the ducts will cause a back-up to form in the prostate, which will literally begin to rot, because it will die inside the prostate. This will cause a swelling of the prostate known as 'prostatitis', which is a fairly common and non-life threatening inflammation of the gland, though it can lead to complications if left untreated. If you feel the need to postpone your orgasms, do so sparingly. Although the end result may be more pleasurable, it can lead to problems. You can also try these techniques: - stop all sexual activity when you feel that you are at the 'breaking point', i.e. when you feel that push that precedes ejaculation. If do this and let everything calm down naturally before getting back to what you were doing, you can have a stronger orgasm. - rub the bottom of the shaft, where the shaft meets the skin on the scrotum. Don't do it in an arousing way...put some pressure on it and do a sort of 'relief' rub. This will alleviate the heightened sensitivity you feel preceding ejaculation/orgasm.

The squeezing and the retreat-before techniques are usually performed too late, when the ejaculation is impossible to stop. The best thing I've heard (and of course put in practice) is to focus in some other part of your body. For example try to keep your toes moving up and down during the intercourse. This sounds funny, but it actually works. I heard this idea from a very ugly guy (a friend) who was always in company of very beautiful women. When I asked him how he do it, he told me that woman will love a 1000 times more somebody ugly who can actually made her reach an orgasm, that a very handsome man who will always finish before her. His secret: Focusing on moving his toes. A true story. Unbelievable !!

When i give my b/f oral sex, and it he doesnt want to cum he will grab it from my mouth gently squeeze, it only takes a split second, and then its back where it belongs. sometimes he will do it 3 or 4 times or until he sees i'm getting tired. so yes that method does work. (thumb & finger). I guess he grabs it so fast because he's trying to catch it early, so as to not cause pain.

When it starts to feel toooo good and you're on the verge of losing it, picture Margaret Thatcher giving you a lap-dance! That oughta do it!

the one I'm going to give you is not easy to do and I haven't found it documented in any place but is the one I use, involves relaxing the stomach and butt muscles while in penetration, be aware that some sex positions will not permit it so you have to change, you can use the doggy stile or her on top.

I like the story about the toes.. lol and I JUST found out it acctually works :) I just want to know... are there any other methods any of you know?

It's all about pace. If the male is humping away, at the first sign of orgasm, he should slow it down. I had to teach an old boy friend how to slow down. He got better at it as time went by. He eventually said that it made his orgasm more explosive by postponing it.

yes imagining something non sexual helps, stopping and going helps. For me pumping faster works better than slower guess slower gets more feeling or something.One thing that really helps me is to have a beer or two before sex also.

In my experience ive always just " RELAXED " dont worry about when your gonna ejaculate, just have fun and everything else should help it self...... high tension and over-thinking about the finish takes away from the journey there