My boyfriend is 22. Last night he admitted to me that when he was 18 he performed oral sex and received it from a kid in his drama class a couple of times, and went to a couple gay bars. He says it was just experimenting, is that normal?

Yes, it is normal to experiment from a time from the graduating high school through college age and then sometimes a bit beyond. Some people naturally know they are attracted to one sex and others need to experiment to know.

Yikes, it is a red flag, but may not be a thing to it...just take more time and eventually, you will know. Certainly, something to consider. Time will tell.

I think it is normal. Experimentation is just learning and although it is indeed a committed act, like someone else suggested, it's not setting in stone what he'll do in the future.

I'm not a guy but if he just did it a few times, I wouldn't think anything of it. It's also possible maybe he wasn't sure if he was bi or not. I made out with a girl a few times in high school, and realized I wasn't bi, but sometimes just having an experience is a good way to find out.

No, it's not normal. An "experiment" carried to the conclusion is a committed act. It makes him bisexual. If that's OK with you, then you have no problem. If you don't want to live with a bisexual, then you do have a problem.

i think its gd to experiment wit the same sex have u eva thought of having sex with a women u need to find these things out just in case u develop feelings at a later time u shud thank him for bein honest wit u and say it does affect ur relationship

It is OK of course. Some people are curious are homosexual relationships and want to experience.

However you might want to make sure that he no longer has sexual desires for the same sex.

Totally normal.

It is normal too experiment, i have given and recived oral sex from the same sex, i was just experimenting.

i have experimented with other guys like giving them head and i think that exploring is perfectly normal