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by Matt M. on April 9th, 2007

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How can I get a girl to like me? She sits by me in my first period Science class. I'm to nervous to talk to her fearing I'll sound dumb and I have no idea of what to say. If it will help I'm a freshman in High School. Someone help. Please.

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  • by Fun on April 9th, 2007

    Fun

    Well she can't like you if you don;t talk to her. And don't worry all girls your age think a lot of things that guys say are dumb. So just say hello and ask her what she is into, hat she did last weekend ect. Take it nice and easy and soon you will be a pro! Good luck!

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  • by Anonymous on September 30th, 2009

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    Man oh man...kids nowadays have no swagger. It's all them damn computers and video games and shit they were playin when they should've been outside learnin' how to talk to girls. Listen my man, all you need to do is make yourself relevant in her mind. Bring yourself into existence. Give her a nice compliment, and not something too obvious. You don't have to strike up a conversation on philosophy or anything, just say hi, let her know you think she's hot, and play it day by day. Trust me though man, once you get out of High School you're never gonna be around that many single girls again, so enjoy it and take advantage of it.

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  • by Anonymous on November 15th, 2007

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    You can't make someone like you, they do that off their own will. What I suggest you do is start out with small conversations, like something about science or the class. If she seems interested inb you then you ask her out on a date. just try and put your shyness in the pass.

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  • by cmb71129 on April 9th, 2007

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    Talk to her and to avoid being stupid, just be yourself. that is the one thing that is almost guarenteed to get her to notice you. just never try to be someone you're not.

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  • by cookiedough245 on September 30th, 2009

    cookiedough245

    introduce yourself and talk to her!
    don't be shy, maybe she's waiting for you to talk to her ! :) don't act nervous though!

    good luck!

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  • by Question and answer. on September 30th, 2009

    Question and answer.

    Hey, yeap!! Well, how can I Help you? Well, I got the same problem, but hey don't worry just be natural, no you won't sound dumb unless you think you are going to sound dumb! Well just be confident talk to her as a friend rather than as a girl, girls like that, don't give her a lot of importance, yet try to be close to her, without looking obvious. Talk to her, always say hi!! and a smile a hug along with a greeting in the morning is a great idea. Yeah, find out what she likes and talk about that, but don't give in to all she thinks, if you do, then you are no longer interesting. as for me, my real problem is that I do not have classes with the girls I like. don't worry, by the time you are a senior you will have developed a lot of conversational skills, and will know how to apply them. Just get to know different girls. If she turns you down, there are many other girls who will want to go out with you. Talk to girls, that way you will get to know what girls like and what to say and what not to say and don't worry about braking up.

    Most of all Be confident to talk to this girl and any girl in general, just be her friend and then out of nowhere be like "I like you a lot!!" oh, and "I think you are beautiful" doesnt really work, don't use it!! LOL. and when you tell her you like her be straight forward, give her a present or a kiss or whatever and tell her you want to get to know her better, then after two or three days ask her out and she will say yes!!

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  • by Forbidden Snowflake on June 29th, 2009

    Forbidden Snowflake

    Maybe she's just as nervous as you are!

    Do you know what interests her? Maybe her stationary can give you an idea - sounds lame but it's true - i had Lord of the Rings stuff and people saw that and would ask me about the movie - they knew to ask me because it was completely obvious that it was of interest to me.


    Hope this helps :)

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  • by Nice Guy In Bay Area on June 29th, 2009

    Nice Guy In Bay Area

    I have been there. You don't want to do anything that will damage your reputation, yet, you are dying to try and get this woman's love. My advice is to take a chance and write her a note or give her a card. Something simple like, "Hello, I just wanted to say how much I enjoy having you in our class. Have a great day!" See if that goes over well. If so, then just keep writing her notes. You could say, "hi!" when you see her in the hallway. You could slowly make the notes more personal and see what happens. This will help boost your courage to ask her out for coffee or something.

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  • by A Rock In Woolfs Clothing on July 5th, 2009

    A Rock In Woolfs Clothing

    Ask a simple question about her interests, don't worry most people love to talk about themselves. Then research the topic on-line, get about a page memorized. It's not being fake, your only looking for her benefit. Work on that, practice in front of the mirror your questions and answers but be aware speaking with people is unpredictable, so she might say anything. Also it's hard to actually face yourself in front of the toilet mirror and see how dumb you really sound and look. Then look for signs that she's interested in researching YOU more; about a week, and ask her out, let me suggest miniature golfing or bowling but it should be in the same week, say you started to chat on Monday ask her out on Thursday for a Friday or Saturday date, they love to get ready for things to do: dressing , make-up, etc. Those other activities are cheap and the two of you may talk. A movie is too passive, just setting there is boring unless holding hands. And don't even think about failure, but it's going to suck anyways if she says no.
    One last thing to top it off if it works, at the end of the date give her a huge hug and hold it a little longer than comfortable.

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  • by zocool on September 30th, 2009

    zocool

    alright man im a junior so im actually helping u dont tell anyone itll ruin my rep lol jk but hey man like that one dude said you cant make them like you but its okay to trip up sometimes around her its like an open invite to i like yoou and hey THERE IS ALWAYS A CHANCE JUST TRY u never know

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  • by traman on July 27th, 2010

    traman

    ive been through this even though it was a year ago and i was a seventh grader i was in the same boat you are and i said screw it sucked it up and went to talk to her and after a while i told her i liked her but first i gained her trust and gradually figured out we liked alot of the same things and i asked her out for a slice of pizza and we are going on a year of being together. so be yourself and stay calm

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